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As example someone who is involved with a decent woman or man leading them along for sex by saying all the "right" words but which they honestly don't mean.

I am just wondering because a friend of mine just had an issue with her boyfriend. Now she is the softest, sweetest person you'll meet a true heart of gold. Not a pushover but she wants to help, etc., etc. And it's something a LOT of people - friends, colleagues, etc. - have warned her about how bluntly people without her best intentions at heart will use/abuse her.

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Anyway she asked to meet at his house 2 weeks from X date and was told no, maybe a couple of weeks.

Now ever since they're last meet up, instead, he has constantly brought up meeting up at airbnbs. Yes the last time that they met up they did this & had a good time.

But there's something sleazy / cheap about meeting at an airbnb - like a side fling, a hookup.

And that's something she brought up tonight. That airbnb = hookup, what when no to home.

Automatically he gets defensive & offended by the implication.

But the thing is, when she asked to meet at his house like a proper girlfriend / boyfriend relationship it was no.

But for meeting at an airbnb - like said a sleasy / cheap side piece / fling - he's constantly bringing it up, begin gunho about it.

This goes for both meeting someone in person AND/OR online. Even though I likely wouldn’t give my number so soon, I find it more attractive when a guy asks for my number. All I have is discord, so asking for any other social media handle is a waste. But gosh it turns me off so much when someone says “You got snap?”. Maybe I’m just old school but I don't know I just always see it as a red flag in terms of what their intentions may be. I just immediately feel they are obsessed with sending attention seeking selfies or wanting nudes/sexxting. You automatically feel like just another “number” that isn’t being taken seriously #FeelFreeToList