Guys, a young guy compliment I am beautiful and attractive and tell me he has crush on me?

[iamkk]

I am married woman. I know this young

guy for two years and he single. I can feel he has something on me for a while. He is always respectful and never do anything inappropriate. I am his client and we meet a few times a month, he is very professional and doing excellent job always. We do not have any body contact and we always focus on the work stuff. Recently I told him for personal reason, I am not gonna see him for a while. all the sudden he told me he always think I am a great woman, a great mother, beautiful and attractive. Later on he expresses he has crush on me, and he is attracted to me. He always say he is respectful. He never asks me out or ask something inappropriate. He told me he just want to share his thoughts and emotions. NO bad intention at all. I did turn him down completely. He said he will not say anything again. I still think he is a decent person.

Can I believe he has no bad intention? All the communication is via text messages. We never meet other than work stuff, no phone call either. Should I continue hiring him? He is definitely the best contractor I have hired.

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2 mo

When we meet, there are always other people here. There is never be a situation just him and I.

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2 mo

I always think highly of him, and referral couple of clients to him. I am very friendly and kind person. I may be over friendly sometime, and giving him some wrong signals.

[Anonymous]

Lol he’s very professional but he’s sending you these types of messages? I’m not the smartest person alive but that doesn’t seem very professional. You seem to get a thrill out of this. You should have shit it down right from the start or found someone else. Imagine if a girl was doing this w your man, texting him that she has a crush on him. But she’s hired to do certain jobs for him. There’s no way you’d want that.

[ManOnFire]

Keep him hired until or unless he seriously starts moving in a direction with it that makes you major uncomfortable or he physically touches you. Otherwise, take it as a compliment and keep things professional.

[Summeroflove]

You say thank you and you never let it get that far. If you feel uncomfortable then tell him and remove yourself from the situation. As well as have open communication with your husband.

[Lokiion]

Keep him hired at least he honest rather have someone honest then someone who’s not and from the sound of it he is amazing at what he does and overall a good guy

[Avicenna]

Obviously he has bad intentions if he's flirting with a married woman

[spartan55]

Ask your husband what you should do.

[iamkk]

I told my husband, he met him before. He is cool with that and trust me.

[spartan55]

Yeah sure

[Iron_Man]

Stay completely away from this man