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I got him and he wanted to talk on the phone and I said I don’t feel well I really just want to make myself some soup. I just want some time alone right now. He HUNG up on me and ignored me for an entire week now he comes back around saying how he puts too much effort in and I’m not doing anything. I know guys can feel neglected too but I think this is too much

(Assuming she is physically attractive to you).

Men complain about getting bored with women (including their partners), get annoyed by their emotional needs and anxieties, get repulsed and frustrated when facing a discussion that is not faced with with logic; complain about women wanting gender equality, thinking they wouldn't do their part or that they wouldn't offer enough on the table in exchange; complain about women being difficult to talk with and "expensive".

Now, imagine a woman who counters the complaints: she shares the same interests as yours with the same depth, has a technical and goal-oriented mindset, is confident and insightful about any topic you open, takes a lot of initiative to drive the day, is not anxious, doesn't feel gender inequality effects, doesn't need a boyfriend (but accepts one), is very logical and assertive during conflicts, coherent, chill and very easy to start any conversation with, men have an unusually very good esteem of her, she manager herself alone by a lot, reasons like a man would, knows what she wants, is generous, trustworthy.

All this can easily come with a cost that is typical of any "too" independent individual: she is sometimes cold and drastic, likes sex but doesn't easily commit to a relationship, doesn't perceive your authority, puts in you in circumstances that imply gender equality, is often too busy for your emotional needs and fully absorbed in her interests, doesn't reply fast to your texts, can't fall for any mind game or power struggles and reads your intentions in advance, doesn't forgive you by just by "missing" you, fights about strongly grounded opinions, is not afraid to offend you with a "no", has male friends she shares interests with, she needs alone-time and if you don't follow her initiatives she leaves you behind.

Is that a cost you would pay?

I have no family and I’m 25. I live alone & I no longer have relationship with parents as they hate I’m independent. We have fought as they are angry I have a car & dad isn’t giving me rides everyday anymore, they are angry I have stable job & business, they don’t want me save , they don’t treat me like an adult so I don’t feel good see them. I always felt left out with family, my married brother doesn’t talk or visit me. His wife wants him only with her family & she has gotten jelaous of me before as one I tried sit next to brother & she got jealous fast went to sit next to him. Wtf. Last time I visited brother and his wife’s family her sisters and wife all ignore me pretend I don’t exist & just talk of her life. My only girl cousin is jelaous of me so she avoids me last time I went visit her & was just with her boyfriend daily so it was pointless even visit her. She pretends like she has a million friends & don’t need me due to envy& wants copy any single thing I have. I have a boyfriend only & he’s only nice person In my life that’s it. I never had friends that are girls as I’m nice & they are mean girls treat me very bad or act jealous. Whole life I enoucnter mean girls or girls that just want be with boyfriend so it’s hard make a true friend.