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I can think of one example in my life and one example in a friend's life where a guy was interested in her and also another time where a guy was interested in me, when I resisted they pursued but when I pursued, they resisted. I did not date the guy cause he was turned off by the fact I initiated contact but when I avoided him he would sacrifice other events to chase after me, but this was years and years ago.

My cousin says the same thing to her friends that if you want a guy to like you, you should ignore him. I don't know if she still gives advice cause she is at the age where a lot of her friends have settled down and are no longer on dating sites.

I had terrible acne during my teenage years and even though I longer have acne, but I still have post acne scars where my pores on the skin are pretty huge and obvious. From time to time my partner would comment on my skin by saying "you picked on your acne during your teenage years which caused bad scars now" it makes me feel awful like I'm not attractive enough for him and I don't even point out on his flaws but he would always judge my appearance

Im not sure what other men think of such acne scars on women. Despite having proper hygiene and eating clean, taking care of my skin these scars are difficult to get rid off. Also, the laser treatment by dermatologist is expensive.

Does it even matter to you if the girl who you are in a relationship with or dating doesn't have clear skin? Is it a deal breaker?