I’m sad because I think I was right about him all along?

[Anonymous]

There’s this guy I used to work with I was super attracted to and I still am, even though I don’t work there anymore. I was thinking of working up the courage to maybe reach out since he used to flirt with me but there was this girl I always suspected he had a thing going on with but I never had solid proof so I wasn’t 100% sure. He liked one of her instagram photos for the first time tonight and I feel like a deflated balloon, I feel like my gut was right this whole time, even when I didn’t want it to be. She’s beautiful and classy and has a larger internet presence, she seems like she has it all. In no way am I shitting on myself or saying I’m not attractive as well but it just kind of hurts. Am I reading too much or should I still try to reach out?

[Alli112]

Reading WAY too much into things. If you're interested, say something. It might suck, but it's not the end of the world if he says no for whatever reason. Heck, this way, you can even be a little more mentally prepared for his rejection in case that happens. Moreover, you don't even work there anymore, so it's not like you'll be making things awkward for your workplace. Just shoot your shoot and let it be just that.

[DishLady]

Ugh... If you're trying to reach out, then why are you psyching yourself out by making this chippy out to be such an "It Girl"? If that's what you really feel, then don't bother with this guy. He should really be initiating if he's interested in you. Your reaching out will look desperate as well as a big, creepy stretch since you're not there anymore. DON'T DO IT...

[Asker]

So apparently shooting your shot is desperate and creepy. Ok got it

[DishLady]

It’s not YOUR SHOT when you don’t have reasonable access to the guy. You missed your shot when you left.

[Asker]

What do you think social media is for? It’s not a crime to request someone’s instagram or Facebook. And if he doesn’t accept he doesn’t accept, nothing happens.

[DishLady]

UUUUGH, My goodness... Ok, you go do you. Don't listen to reason. Good luck.

[Asker]

😂😂

[BetaBucks]

99.9% of dudes don't care if a woman has a large internet presence. Most dudes I know wouldn't like that. As for the topic, him liking her pic doesn't mean anything. If he was liking every post and replying to them all, then sure. Don't stress. Shoot your shot. Nothing happens if it doesn't work out.

[Asker]

I just followed you from my account. Follow me back so I can message you to chat

[ChicoFromThe305]

I guess it won't hurt to reach out to make sure your assumption is correct.

[Anonymous]

guys tend to have rebound relationships. Be careful

[Asker]

How do you mean in this case?

[Opinion Owner]

Well I would say listen to your gut. He wouldn’t make u doubt yourself if he was 100 percent real to u

[Asker]

So I’m most likely correct about the girl then?

[Opinion Owner]

How do u look how dies she look

[Asker]

We’re both attractive young women but she has a larger internet presence and I’m not on social media at all, really

[Opinion Owner]

Who looks prettier

[OhLongJohnsoning]

Has he ever liked any of your shit?

[Asker]

I don’t post

[OhLongJohnsoning]

That's likely why he hasn't then. POSTTTTTTTTTTTTT

[Asker]

Am I reading too much into it?

[OhLongJohnsoning]

prob.