Is there any country in the world where most average men can easily date and find love? Or does dating suck for the majority of men everywhere?

[WhiteBoyChill]

Obviously dating in the US sucks but I’d be curious to know about other places.

I hear often that other parts of the world are more traditional than the US.

But then again, this could in part just be based on our outside perceptions.

I’ve never actually been to any Asian, African, or Latin American countries for example.

I cannot tell you how things are there based on my own personal experiences.

But a lot of dudes I hear about from the “passport bro” movements just sound kinda stupid.

Like I got nothing against dudes trynna find genuine love but when you got all these incel sounding white dudes on the internet talking shit like “every Asian girl at the airport will instantly fall in love with you at first sight”. I can’t help but think that it sounds like genuine BS.

I mean fr like Asian girls have never seen a picture of a white dude on the internet before? Yeah right.

Anyway, I been active on Reddit lately and I asked Colombian men about what it’s like dating Colombian women.

And the responses they provided were overwhelmingly similar to the complaints I often hear made about American/western women. So part of me wonders if foreign women aren’t actually as “traditional” as most American/western guys believe

I don’t mean to put down foreign women either because I do find them more physically attractive but personality wise I can’t really say much about how they actually are because I have no actual firsthand experiences with them.

Other than impressions I’ve formed of them based on videocalls with them.

For example, Latina women in general always return any text message I send them. And I’m not this super pervy/weird guy either.

American women? Its an absolute rarity.

Anyway, you could just say “gold diggers” anytime a foreign woman is interested in a foreigner but the truth is of all the foreign girls I’ve met online before I’ve never had a single one ever ask me for money.

We usually would talk for maybe a year and then the interest would taper off.

[Lilith13]

It depends, maybe yes or maybe not, I'm not really sure, but I think it's a matter of the tastes of a certain woman and a certain man, tradition, religion, etc. I don't know how to explain it, since I've never had a partner, The boys I liked treated me like shit and are arrogant and are some of the people responsible for my low self-esteem and other personal problems. But there are all kinds of people everywhere, and what you just mentioned could be stereotypes that other countries have invented or that they misinterpret in some different way for some reason or another, or that certain attitudes and attitudes are not well regarded in their culture. traditions. But there are also very selfish people who only think of themselves and use their partner as an accessory, a credit or debit card, to obtain the nationality of their partner's country, to show off in front of other people to feel powerful and to feel inferior to other people. . But there are people who are not like that and care about their partner, if someone really loves you, they would care about you, they would try to help you, they would understand your feelings, they would bother to get to know you better, they would want to make you happy, knowing your tastes, and it would be for you. faithful. A person who does not love you would not do those things, he would prefer to take care of himself and use you for his benefit and possibly, if you lose certain virtues and/or privileges that you had before, he will throw you in the trash can and go with someone else. that he still has what you previously had that is of interest to him and/or he would try to get rid of you, he would disrespect you, he would not care about you, he would talk badly about you behind your back, and among other toxic behaviors. There are very superficial people who do not bother to know others, they speak without knowing, they judge without knowing about certain people and/or situations. That makes my blood boil, because I suffered that type of behavior and very few people have cared about me, and they were very rude and superficial with me and with other people who also went through what I went through. Of course, I know that my comment may be somewhat cynical and pessimistic, but what I want to say is that there will be people who will love you and who will want to know you, and others who will hate you and who will treat you badly, and who will not even bother to know you and They will talk about things they don't know. To build a successful romantic relationship you have to get to know each other, it takes time, talking to each other about your problems and helping each other until the spark arises. But there are times when it doesn't come up, either because of disagreements on certain things, it's not the type of partner you're looking for, it doesn't respect your tastes, etc. Don't worry, one day love will come to you.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Thank you for this 🙏 I think this is something I really needed to hear 😊 and I hope things go well for you also someday ❤️

[Lilith13]

You're welcome, I'm glad I provided you with the answer you were looking for. And thank you too.

[alice55]

Honestly it really depend on the person, a country can be more traditional and still have many progressive people and vice versa, it boil down to individuals.

But yes it's dangerous to go to "poor" countries as an American man cause you'll attract a lot of gold digger (a lot are also quite smart about how they go).

I don't think that dating in France is that hard as I've seen many young people in couple but I never really went on a date to be honest so

[WhiteBoyChill]

And this also includes average looking men in appearance? Many of them are also having no trouble going on dates in France?

[alice55]

It especially include them considering most attractive guys just do ons and no real relationship

[alice55]

The most important is being able to hold conversation for a long time cause if you can't it's gonna be difficult but if you're average and good for conversation you're good.

[BonzoInBitburg]

There are lots of foreign women in America that aren't westernized and have kept their culture. If you travel overseas for a girl be prepared to spend 4-5k at a minimum per trip to Asia and you'll need to make a few trips to be sure you're not getting scammed. Travel to Africa is tricky because there's more connecting flights. Columbia is cheaper. Going abroad isn't cheaper than dating local. And if she's legit and you marry her, you might need to pay her parents. Even weddings abroad can be more expensive because the whole village gets invited and you're paying.

[WhiteBoyChill]

1) Where can I find said women in the US?

2) Logistically I’m not willing to maintain an LDR.

3) If I do date a foreign woman not in the US, it’ll be because I’m doing remote work there

[BonzoInBitburg]

Good women get scooped up fast so you need some good female friends and they'll set you up

My wife is from the Philippines and I didn't think you can beat that because everyone speaks English. Infrastructure is better elsewhere but communication would be an issue. I've driven a motorcycle through some small towns in the middle of nowhere where they've never seen a white person in real life and that's an experience. I've had random strangers take pictures with me.

[WhiteBoyChill]

That must be neat! Haha

[OlderAndWiser]

I've never had any problems with dating in the US.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Well, you are part of the minority of men

[Juxtapose]

Look at his age. He was around before things got so shitty and people in his age bracket still hold the old ways.

[WhiteBoyChill]

@Juxtapose Exactly right. But he claims just because he’s a lawyer and sees young dudes getting married, that’s enough prove to claim “any average guy can still easily do it”

[WhiteBoyChill]

Proof*

[Radiate143]

Dating as a practice sucks. Women are more vulnerable. Men are afraid women will laugh at them and women are afraid men will kill them. It's so so true.

[DishLady]

Yeah... entire continents.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Not true.

[Jennz6]

Pakistan 🇵🇰

[DryGermanGuy]

I strongly assume you are joking. As a Christian you are on thin ice in Pakistan as it is, try to flirt with their Muslim women and you are poking the hornets nest.

[Jennz6]

@DryGermanGuy Muslim men make it easy for women. They make all the decisions and are good providers. Since I’m submissive, it doesn’t bother me if the men are dominant

[DryGermanGuy]

So it miiight work out for you with meeting Pakistani men in the United States but I strongly want to discourage our young fertile lad to go to Pakistan and mime the horny Westerner.

[Jennz6]

@DryGermanGuy why?

[DryGermanGuy]

You don't watch the relevant world news much, do you?
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cedd00z7dpyo
www.dw.com/.../a-60008642
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-68511557

[Jennz6]

@DryGermanGuy I wouldn’t use “WhatsApp”

[DryGermanGuy]

Neither do I...

[Jennz6]

@DryGermanGuy I was just told that the men cane women who are not obedient

[DryGermanGuy]

Yeah, these women are probably the lucky ones. Rural Pakistan is the twin to Afghanistan.

[Jennz6]

@DryGermanGuy I would be obedient

[Jennz6]

@DryGermanGuy I know women are worth less than men

[Jennz6]

I’m worth less than all the men and women

[WhiteBoyChill]

@jennz6 Hence your career choice, I suppose

[WhiteBoyChill]

@DryGermanGuy I gotta say though man, that is American 1920’s level stuff!

Back when black people used to be similarly lynched in America, that is.

Just surprised there’s parts of the world that still target minority people and lynch them while cheering on based on unfounded allegations.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I thought mob lynching was literally just a formerly American thing

[Jennz6]

@WhiteBoyChill yes

[Dongie]

I don't have a fucking clue.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Then why answer the question? Lol

[Dongie]

Because my frustration is expanding.

[WhiteBoyChill]

With dating?

[Dongie]

Actually I had this whole page written out from the horny depths of my tortured soul. Then I thought he don't need to hear all of this. So I erased it.