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Search Results: how to get guys to approach me
She Wants My Emotional Support, After Leaving Me Hanging For Another Man And Trying To Friendzone Me?
A while ago a woman approached me, pursued me, love bombed & sex bombed me. It was going great, very quick start, instant rapport. She was rebounding and struggling with depression. Her ex, who wants her...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I stop attracting older men and start getting guys my age to approach me?
Im a high school seniors I’m 18 but im not interested in like guys over 21 or so. Whenever I go out in public I also get a ton of attention/approaches from guys in their 40’s up while guys my age never seem to bat an eye...
Anonymous
(18-24) How should I approach this situation?
So there is this guy that I’ve been crushing on for years on and off. I don’t know if it was bad timing but I had so much anxiety to even talk or be near him that I pushed him away. I just kind of avoided him and the only...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is he interested?
There’s a guy that I have found to be good looking in one of my classes in Uni. He never really stood out to me before until a few weeks ago when I got his help with some schoolwork. We started texting about it and hed...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do you become good enough friends with crush to talk in the hallways. We’ve talked 6-7 times but don’t seem to be on conversation starting basis?
I like this guy I my science science class and we’ve had like 5-6 good conversations, follow each other on Instagram, and have had small dm interactions/text convos but we don't seem to like ever acknowledge each other...
Anonymous
(18-24) What do I do when a guy's suspiciously following me?
He was wearing a face mask and we were on the street. I was alone and he looked like he was approaching me till I got into a crowded area where I lost him?
Curiosity2006
Xper 6 Age: 20 When you Attend too and Listen to me speak, without being overly reactive, I get the following from it? It helps our relationship in this/these ways?
It is time for this type of question as I am tired of explaining how Girls/Guys are different and trying to give examples. EXAMPLES: Girls feel free to speak with "you, men, and/or A-hole". Above all speak to the Guys in...
Whenever guys hit on me my friends get annoyed and tell me they probably just casually say that to everyone. Do I need new friends who encourage me?
It’s every single time I tell them about a guy I’m talking to or one who just approached me and complimented me one day.
Anonymous
(30-35) Why are men more likely to approach short girls?
When my friends Go out we noticed that more guys gravitate towards the shorter girls in our group usually 5’4 and under than the ones who are taller. also all of my friends who are shorter have boyfriends while the taller...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why don’t girls approach guys they think is attractive instead of looking creepy?
So I’m a really attractive looking guy. I could probably be a model if I wanted too. But anyways, I sometimes get girls who like stalk me with their eyes a lot. Or like even follow me around. I’m pretty shy because I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why he does this? Does he likes me back too?
I liked a guy of our class. He was calm and quiet. We would usually talk on certain occasions but not frequently. He would always sit right next to my bench even if his friends sits faraway. I always had eye contact with...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do guys never hit on me?
I hear of females being approached by men all the time. But the thing is, it NEVER happens to me. Guys never approach me. I'm not gorgeous but just cute. Guys would stand there and look at me, then expect me to make the...
Haha456
Xper 6 Age: 34 Guys, Why do so few women realize men have changed because women have changed?
I don't think most women get men while we are the people who approach generally. Women are the ones that signal to be approached. And for millenia this is how it has worked. But now women are more aggressive. Women want...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) What would make you approach/pursue another?
What would you make go after a guy/girl to go up and small talk or hit on them and potentially get their number? (i. e.: Specific physical features, gestures, eye contact) be specific! Even if you would never approach...
heartofgold94
Xper 1 Age: 31 It seems to me that are either more picky about looks vs men or less picky. But they are generally not the same level of picky?
I’ve been both unattractive and attractive in my dating life. Unattractive as a teen, told I was very attractive in my 20s and now to be realistic semi-attractive being 41 (I keep myself in shape and got all my hair.)....
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do guys who approach me and continuously pursued me back off as soon as I show interest? Was coming off too strong a mistake?
This handsome and kind guy classmate ftom my campus started to chat me around 20 days ago and we only have to chat for a day until he asked me to hang out together. I immediately agreed because I like him too. We hang 2...
Anonymous
(25-29) If a lot of unattractive guys find me attractive does that mean I’m unattractive?
I swear the only guys that hit on me or catcall me are the ones without a job, possibly homeless men on the street… now that I think about it, I think over the past few years the only guys who have approached me have been...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do men say they want women who are wife material but give attention to everything but that?
I’ve been called wife material by lots of guys. I’m a pretty girl with a pretty face and nice body (not overly curvy but I am fit and in shape). I don’t post myself on social media or look for social media validation. I’m...
Anonymous
(18-24) What should I do? Should I ignore him?
I liked a guy of our class. He was calm and quiet. We would usually talk on certain occasions but not frequently. He would always sit right next to my bench even if his friends sits faraway. I always had eye contact with...
Anonymous
(18-24) Isn't it possible to be friends anymore after confessing?
I recently confessed to my close guy friend. And I told him I respected his answer and that I just want to remain close friends. But he started acting awkward. He started ghosting me when I try to text him. But when he...
Wintergirl21
Xper 4 Age: 32 