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I'll cut short in points

Been together since 7.5 years

He has always been careless, emotionally immature kind of person. I always thought he'll get better with time. Since He grew up in super protected environment.

He didn't even do bare minimum efforts and didn't treated me properly , my fault being i never complained and expressed and so he thought its okay to be like that. (And i was waiting that things come from his side itself without me asking)

I used to suffer without letting him know much, me being a hopeless romantic n sensitive person.

Now he's asking me to teach him how to treat girls so that he can do better. I feel its not my place to do. Its something his parents / friends/ himself should have taught him.

As a person he is very pure of heart, honest, and all. But he's superr dumbo and kinda avoid difficult conversations.

Tbh its kinda difficult for me and maybe I'm getting emotional since i have spent soo much time and energy for this guy.

I really wish things worked out but i dont want to lose myself in the process too.

One part of me is like.. should give another chance

Another being let it go. Things might not get better in future as well.

Another is just be friends. I help him develop as a person as a supportive friend. And if things work out or we feel we can try. Otherwise just friends.

I see arguments for both sides. My first thought was women have it easier just put on a crop top and a short skirt or hotpants and you are fine. Sun dresses ar a valid option too. But then I remember it is mostly expected of us to wear a bra and men can sometimes go topless or at least with an open shirt to the same places.
Then if you look at 80s fashion comparable things to hot pants where totally accepted and in fashion for men. So while I still think we have it easier we are mostly expected to wear the most at the worst parts and men kinda did it on themselves.

honest answer

I am 5’11”3/4 (people keep fighting with me saying I’m 6’0) and I’ve been dumped twice for my height. My first boyfriend (6’0) cheated on me with a petite girl and my second ex dumped me because he was embarrassed to have a very tall girlfriend. He said he likes short girls. He’s 5’7”.

I had a crush in a guy that was 6’6 but he said I’m too tall and he admitted to having a huge crush on my gorgeous cousin who’s 5’4”. Some guys said they adore tall women and love our long legs but one guy said most of the guys aren’t being honest and bluntly said the majority of men prefer shorter women.