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More like antisocial? I’m 28F & I’ve never been in a long term relationship. I saw someone briefly for a few months a few years ago & my lack of experience is sad but the dating apps haven’t brought someone else I’d want to consider long term. After being on and off them for years, I can’t tell if I’ve become burnt out or more disinterested. I don’t have friends, I have one online friend that I’ve known for a few years (never met in person) & had two online gamer friends that I just cut off. I’ve always had a tendency to cut people off when they do things to rub me the wrong way after an extended amount of time. I get to the point where I don’t see the point in confronting them & stop talking to them/remove them from social media. My mother always said I’d regret this but I have yet to feel remorse, maybe I will later down the line. I don’t have patience & pretty sure my tolerance would be lower with romantic relationships. Atm I’m more for being picky & alone over feeling like I settled & am not content with someone. Are some people just better off alone?

I’m starting to realize that maybe men just don’t like me, I’m going to be 30 soon & never been in a proper relationship. I don’t want kids at least but I really don’t think I’m unattractive, I have self esteem issues so my opinion changes. But I’ve been on the dating apps for years on and off, my interest in them just became lesser over the years. Getting matches are never the issue it’s just it working out, always ghosting, fizzling out, etc. I’m told I’m cute/attractive, I never get asked out by guys in person, I can confidently say I’ve never been approached by a guy I found physically attractive. Back when I was 23 I dated someone briefly & I felt so offended by only being able to attract him it felt like settling I couldn’t be with him, I’ve been alone this whole time that shows you how men feel about me. When I was younger and around people my age more often I was told these guys found me attractive but they never did anything about it. The fact that beautiful people are always taken it makes me realize I’m maybe just not good enough. Isn’t it strange being as old as I am & still not meeting someone that I actually like? I’m not asking for a lot: good looks, taller than me (doesn’t have to be 6+ ft), educated, good sense of humor, not a cheater etc. I feel like I’ve genuinely become less interested in dating with my experience, I have a lower than average sex drive too I think