Being a lonewolf and raising a pack?

[Anonymous]

I'm almost bombarded by the thoughts that I get about being rational, radical, philosophical, empathetic and an avid thinker and still not able to find a quality group of friends. Many of the groups I have been part of there's at least one outlier who had the ability to infect and infuse people with negative thoughts and the whole group would lose trust and go haywire. Since then I'm on my own and truly lacking any social circle that I can belong to. This has a serious impact on my life because now no women would be interested to date and marry irrespective of whatever the qualities I have. Being alone has always led me to sirens and the experience was horrible and pathetic.

I want to take this as an opportunity to ask women how they feel about such men outside of what they are used to seeing and consider one for dating and marrying.

P. s: I lack communication skills which I'm working on but not been able to strike random conversation shouldn't be the root cause.

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How do I raise a family being a lone wolf?

[jorfan3]

Update the question: what are you trying to ask, in a nutshell?

I don't exactly understand...

[Asker]

Is it possible for a guy to have a healthy relationship and a family of he's a loner? What would women think of a loner regardless of how successful he is or how much of an intellect he is. Or would you prefer a guy with a large social circle. Do women see them as baggage or package.
Is it a deal breaker?

[jorfan3]

I don't see being a loner as a non-plus. It's just your style. My husband was a loner when I met him, and we have a great relationship.