Search Results: how do i tell him to stop

Please help me - not sure what boyfriend is hiding?

I feel like I’m going crazy …. My boyfriend of almost 7 years went to a work Christmas event which was midday to evening. He said they went for drinks after and he met up with another friend (not from work) and drank...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My petite friends told me for a tall girl I need to stop being so picky about men. Why would they if they’re shorter than every man?

I complained to my friends about why I can’t get second dates. Or why can’t I keep a boyfriend. They looked at reach other and said bluntly that I always overlook guys becoming of their heights and I refuse to date men...

AmazonChick171

Xper 7 Age: 27

Foreign co-worker likes me but hates me?

Hi All, So my co-worker, we'll call him Matt, and I met on a work trip. He's Austrian, and I'm from the US. During the trip, he texted me throughout, saying goodnight to me, saying he thought I was cute and hot, saying...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was I wrong to break up with her like this?

We've been seeing each other for just over three months and in that time she hasn't really acted like she wanted to be in a committed relationship. Like talking with exes and going out to bars and clubs. The last thing in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Were we just fucking?

I went out with a guy for 7 months, we were very sexually compatible, shared similar interests, and went on many dates within this time, but he never introduced me to anyone. He had great manners but felt cold and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I become ok with my fiancé rules?

I have a partner that I have been with for 2 years. But recently I have been having more and more issues with these rules that he has given me. 1. Never talk to men unless necessary. (At work or a teacher. I can not talk...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Every time I try to end it with him he tells me to “just chill out”?

He makes me feel disrespected and dismissed. I like him as he has some good qualities, but he hurts me sometimes. When I try to talk about my feelings he says I’m crazy and dismissed it as I’m “overthinking”. He mentioned...

Anonymous

(25-29)

As a joke I told my children my husband hates them and I have to cancel their birthday party we are sick but I am angry at him he wants a divorce?

I was joking because I was mad at him. He said to stop turning up the heat to 90 then opening the front door and the windows for a several hours when it's snowing and we are sick. I heard that is a great way to strengthen...

Uranis1984

Xper 1 Age: 46

I Have a Huge Crush on My Mom’s Boyfriend. I get jealous. How Do I Move Past It?

I have a massive crush on my mom's boyfriend. He's incredibly charming, ridiculously good-looking, smart, funny, and the kind of guy who makes my heart race. Every time I think about him I get all giddy and excited...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I’m in love with my friends with benefits?

So I’ve known this guy since highschool and we’ve always been very close friends, and nothing happened between us in the past. 2 years ago we both came out of long term marriages at a similar time, and found comfort in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, Have you ever called a guy pathetic after a breakup if he truly loved you?

So many people would call me insane cause I treated this girl really great and in return I was called a bitch, nuisance physically hit. She would throw temper tantrums when she wouldn’t get her way and flip out anytime I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Education & Career

Has a coworker ever you to stop eating at work?

We had a pizza party at work today and a old lady who happens to work in hr but is not a manager told me stop eating and save some for everyone. I had about 5 slices in total. Do you think she was rude or hates me?

michael3478

Xper 6 Age: 30

Is it a red flag if a guy throws the odd sexual innuendo into a conversation or phone chat but then jokes it off?

I’ve been speaking to this guy who I met through online dating. He added me on social media and we’ve been chatting for the last 3 days. We’ve talked about meeting up for dates etc he said he’s looking for something long...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Are there any good girls out there?

My ex called me insecure and controlling for not wanting her to have male friends. She was really manipulative, using these tactics to justify her need for attention from other guys. She needed constant attention and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Shopping & Gifts

You ever have doubts about someone giving you a gift or gifts?

Like why all of a sudden is this person buying you gifts? Like what did they do that they aren’t telling you the truth about? , Like they are trying to cover up something that they aren’t telling you. I dated a girl once...

Finchie40

Master Age: 48

Do you find this disrespectful?

I'm getting a lot of unsolicited advice from a friend. He has been telling me that I'm wasting my life and being immature because I don't want to marry and have kids. Him and his group are pretty much responsible for me...

ClassicDropout

Xper 6 Age: 29

Health & Fitness

It's not that easy carrying a baby and then giving birth is it?

I just started having cold-like symptoms, hot flashes, nausea sensations (but no vomiting), coughing and the continued gag reflex upon brushing my teeth. I stopped by for a visit at my prenantal care clinic and was told...

Vesuvius87

Guru Age: 39