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How do I become ok with my fiancé rules?

I have a partner that I have been with for 2 years. But recently I have been having more and more issues with these rules that he has given me.

1. Never talk to men unless necessary. (At work or a teacher. I can not talk to classmates, or even his friends)

2. Always listen the first time (this meaning that whenever he asks me to do something, big or small I need to do it whether I like it or not because then how will he trust me)

3. Never lie ( he has trust issues based on past cheating and his family also lying. I can’t hide anything)

4. No attitude (when I don’t want to do something or I don’t agree with something, I can not give attitude, just do what he says and tell him later what my concerns were)

5. Communicate with him (tell him my concerns because he isn’t perfect or a mind reader in order to be the partner I want)

these are the constant rules that I break from time to time. I don’t talk to classmates but when I forget my headphones and a guy gives them to me, I have to grab them and not say anything. Just ignore everyone. If his friends ask where he is, I can’t respond. I’ve told him that texting works for me because I have a trauma where I can not communicate and my body physically does not let me but he has ADHD and says that texting doesn’t work for him and tries to force what I want to say in the moment which is why having an attitude is a rule since I often get an attitude when I am in that moment. There is smaller stories but I’m tired and I want the fighting to stop and just get used to his rules. Are they ok? How do I help him? Is this normal? How do I get used to these rules and follow them?

How do I become ok with my fiancé rules?
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