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My girlfriend Bianca acts like she’s not into me. For example, when people ask us how we met. She tells people “I didn’t wanna date him but my friend Becky told me to”. When that’s not even the truth. She’s the one who approached me and said “we should hang out”.

Bianca makes me feel like a simp. She acts like she’s not into me. She rarely has interest in sex. She says it turns her off how I breath so hard n deep during sex. We have sex once a week if I’m lucky. Then she acts like she’s doing me a favour because we have sex. Bianca always shows interest in other dudes and she’s not affectionate like I want her to be.

Feeling so emotionally neglected, I broke up with Bianca and immediately started a relationship with a girl named Shelly. Shelly was the best thing that happened to me in so long. The sex was amazing, she’s very affectionate, and she makes me feel like the man. But, the only problem is, Shelly lives in another city. She wants me to move to her city but I hate the city she lives in. It’s too crime infested, I know I can’t live there. And Shellys not willing to move her either. So Shelly is not forever.

A month after I started dating Shelly long distance, Bianca called me crying in the middle of night. Saying that she misses me and wants me to come over. My dumbass went back to Bianca and now I’m juggling two girlfriends. I’m emotionally tied to Bianca and sexually addicted to Shelly. If Bianca was giving me the love, sex, and affection I wouldn’t be messing with Shelly. I can’t drop either of them. What do I do?

Girl I was seeing (we're both 25) for about six weeks broke things with me, earlier this week. She had gone from saying this just days before that she liked me a lot and that I made her feel really comfortable, and that she could say things to me she couldn't to others, to saying that she didn't think we were compatible and basically that she thought we were in different places in terms of our feelings for each other. Before that night, I didn't think I had ever found someone so compatible to me.

I told her that night I that I thought I might be falling in love with her. She told me Tuesday that was kicked off the thinking that led to her ending it. She also met some of my friends that weekend, for the first time. Even still, she told me afterwards that she likes me a lot, it just takes time to for her to get there. And when she went home the next night, she told me that I make her really comfortable with how I handle things in bed (she's completely inexperienced).

She's never been on more than two dates with someone, or made out or anything, and my therapist and others think she likely panicked. I reached out to her yesterday and we texted back and forth a little, agreed to be friendly going forward (we're on the board of a very active social/networking organization with lots of mutual friends) and continue our working relationship. I also told her she was pretty brave with how she ended things and that my first time breaking things off with someone was hard for me. Does anyone think she could change her mind?