Search Results: am i a bad girlfriend

I don’t want a girlfriend. I just want sex. So I literally go to bars often and just have one night stands. The girls try to message me but I ignore them. I’m really not looking to date. I hope that doesn’t make me a bad guy. I’m just trying to live life free before I get a career and have a wife. I don’t talk to them after because I don’t want to catch feelings.

is it bad that you have pay someone to go on a date with you for Valentine's day? is it pathetic? is it bad for them? is it bad that you may have go on a date with someone you do not like or is not good look or is much older than you? is it bad you may have go out with someone of the same sex as you? I mean I look at my options for a date and it dose not look good.

I may have go out with a guy cause a lot guys like me but I like girls. I may have go out with an older women. I will have go out with someone I do not like just to go out with someone on a date. I don't know which one is the best thing do but I do not have a lot of options.

if you had pick if you had pick which one would you choose? It suck not being able to find a date. I may just stay home and wait for someone good to come. or just be by myself.

How you feel about being alone and not have a girlfriend or any that like you? what would you do?

I have dated probably a hundred women over the past 35 years. Most of the breakups were the civilized, "this doesn't seem to be working well for either of us" kind of break ups. A few were the embarrassing kind that bring out the worst in everyone. At least the bad break ups helped me to avoid picking such awful partners again.

The worst involved my girlfriend getting drunk, accusing me of being unfaithful with various women around the country (I was at home EVERY night and never cheated on her,) trying to snatch my phone from my hand, losing her grip and falling backwards, hitting her head on the wall, then calling police and having ME arrested for domestic violence. Typical cop bias resulted in me spending a night in jail before the prosecutor eventually decided that there was NO evidence to support any domestic violence charge and the case was dismissed. Lesson learned and I now stay away from girls who seem to drink just a little too much, too often.

Have most of your break ups been peaceful? Any horror stories to share?