I was lucky in my early 20's because I was in Japan and hookers were legal. I do about 3 different girls every night...5,000 yen a piece and I could talk them down to about 3,000 yen (5,000 yen at the time was around $50 US dollars, and 3,000 yet was about $30), they blow you with the condom on a you fuck until you cum.
It eventually became illegal, at least for us Navy dudes, so I resorted to having 2 LTR girlfriend's at the same time and would supplement with random bar girls during the week.
I think it's perfectly normal for a dude to just get it out of his system while he's younger. The whole relationship stuff didn't really matter to me until I was more interested in the actual relationship part than just the sex.
Perfectly normal. Play the field, get it out of your system... before settling down.
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Are you being upfront from the get go that you’re just interested in sex? And wouldn’t call ONS sexual relationship, more sexual hook up…
also, there’sa big difference between meeting someone at a bar and cooking up versus texting, calling, showing interest in someone with the sole intent of just sex….
so guess it depends not just what you’re doing but “how “ you’re doing it
I say as long as you make that clear up front. None of this lying and pretending/manipulation that leads them along thinking you want more.
Be careful though, you can still make that clear up front and someone might think they can change your mind, if she seems that way. Don't take any chances.
Are you planning on letting you future wife know about all this?
No, as to pursue people as solely objects for pleasure (hyper-sexuality) or destruction (Abortion) are both wrong and often outcomes of promiscuous behavior as referenced in your question. In plain language, keep your penis in your pants and vagina locked down until those two are ready to form covenant of Marriage before a Holy God.
u If they are messaging you afterwards, it sounds as if you are misleading them to get what you want.
Yes it’s normal. I hope you don’t have kids.
there's men in their mid 20’s and they’re still doing this. Even with kids, which is sad.
Just be upfront with these women, because many of them want the same thing. Honesty above all. Don’t lie and trick them because you’d be giving them false hope. That’s what’s evil and sick. Don’t “GHOST” because that’s just rude and you’ll look like an JERK. At least say “IM BUSY” each time. Texting someone back won’t make you catch feelings 🤦🏻♀️
Not all women are worth dating, and one day you’ll meet a good woman worth dating and worth catching feelings for, and you’ll know it. You’ll know it yourself. It’ll just happen, and she won’t be found in a bar or club. And you’ll know when you’re ready for her. And you’ll know when you’ve met her.
But keep in mind that if you’re gonna be single and a player, you will be catching STDs and Diseases from these women.
Always use protection because you don’t know where they’ve been. And when you’re ready for a woman who loves you, then you wouldn’t want her to absorb your STDS and Diseases from your player days. If you’re gonna be a player and part of the game in your 20s, at least go to the doctor regularly, get blood work done. Get tested for those diseases that you’ll likely receive, because many of those diseases can even happen even with the condoms on,, and by simply touching her skin down there. So yeah you’ll have to pay and put up with illnesses STDS , throughout this area of your life. Let’s just hope you don’t catch something crazy like HIV AIDS, HPV.
This is the main reason people get in relationships and married. Because sex is actually meant to reproduce and bring forth a live. Not for you to masturbate with someone’s body. You’re basically masturbating with these women’s body. And women catch feelings because their brains release oxytocin when in orgasm. That’s what keeps them with you.
But it is what it is; you’ll suffer being a player either way, because you’ll catch all the STDS there are from these damaged women that are there.
It's not uncommon for some people in their early 20s to prioritize sexual relationships over romantic relationships, and it's important for individuals to make their own choices and pursue what they want. However, it's important to consider the potential consequences of this behavior, both for yourself and for others involved. Engaging in sexual activities with others should always be consensual, and it's important to be honest and respectful in all interactions. It's also important to practice safe sex to prevent the spread of sexually transmitted infections. Ultimately, as long as you are treating others with respect and honesty, and being safe, it's up to you to decide what type of relationships you want to pursue.
It's OK as long as you aren't deceiving anyone, not even implying anything. Just be straight with them.
Although to be honest, completely ignoring them afterwards is pretty cold. Just because you have a ONS doesn't mean you should throw them away like they are nothing. At least be friendly and respectful to them.
'So I literally go to bars often and just have one night stands.'
You are playing with fire! I can think of no better way to catch an STD, catch a false allegation, false accusation of rape and there is a new STD out that there is a media blackout on. It's symptoms are very different than what you'd expect and the Doctors are also pretending it's not infecting people. You are on the wrong path! Times are very different now and if you continue on this path, there will be consequences. I see a comment labeling it as normal behaviour. Anything the majority do in society in general are labelled this way. But what are the majority? Are they content, healthy, wise, happy and full-filled?
But the biggest tell is the fact that despite so many men of your age behaving this way, something made you ask if this is normal. That is your higher self that is beneath the surface trying to direct you to a higher way of living.
It is normal and healthy, but you have to make sure the girl is okay with that before having sex with her. A girl having sex is quite often different than a guy. A girl typically wants something more. So you should be honest and tell them where you are at.
You'll most likely never find a wife doing that type of bs. Women are disgusted by players. It use to not be a big deal cuz women put up with men being sluts but that's not the case anymore.
That is what everyone should be doing. Date and date as much as you can. When you find that special person, you settle, but till then, have some fun. Life is too short.
That's pretty shitty behaviour and it's going to fuck you up when you later try and "make" a relationship, but won't know how.
It's OK if you are honest about your intentions.
it’s probably immoral, but it also sounds normal.
Yes, because a lot of times that’s all that anyone wants anymore, not until they are in there 40s
I'd say it's beyond normal, my guy lol
Nice flex though 👍
It's typical for guys at that age range to be like that, which is why girls stick to older men if they want something serious
Why not…. He can work out what he likes and have the best time in trying new things out
In my culture sex is an agreement and a bond btn man and woman. So don't just sleep around. It makes u cheap as a man
Not unless he's suicidal between the STDs and the MeToo statutes enforced by using a firing squad
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