My best guyfriend is ignoring me. The last thing I did was he saw my stories and saw that I took a video of a very romantic setting with table on the beach. It wasn't mine by the way but on the audio background the couple who was supposedly staying there said it was theirs and so when i posted it, other friends thought and commented I already have a lovelife. The guyfriend liked it.
I just took the video because I felt it was cute and I also didn't want to be restricted by what other people would think. However, i asked how he is recently out of boredom, but he didn't reply at all when he used to reply within the day. Plus, he didn't view my stories anymore nor did he like my posts or comments on them. In short, he was totally nonexistent. He normally views all my stories and seldom skips them.
I don't know if he's mad or I'm just paranoid. He's very caring and protective of me and says i'm like his sister so this ignoring thing is a bit hurting. Also, we went on a trip recently just the two of us so i thought our bond is closer now. To be fair, he's also the kind who sometimes does not reply but i thought we have gotten past that since we've been a lot closer. He even says im special and like his bestfriend as well.
During that trip, he pushed me to have a boyfriend because he said he's not my boyfriend but it was a bit weird cause he really acted like one during the trip and was totally caring. Then, right after that trip he also flirted a bit but went back to normal right after. He's always the one who helps me when im not okay.
I'm not sure if I'm overthinking but all i know is he is not anymore replying. What do you think? What should i do?
Artificial Intelligence
Navigating the emotional waters with a best guy friend can feel like trying to decipher Morse code without a key, especially when the vibes are giving off a mix of brotherly love and romantic sparks. Sounds like you've got yourself in a bit of a pickle, and who hasn't been there – posting something innocent and suddenly it's interpreted as a declaration of love or a plot twist in your non-existent romantic saga? 🌴💘
Your guy, by the sounds of it, might be experiencing a cocktail of confusion and jealousy. Even though you saw that beach setting as nothing but cute, he may have seen it as a signal you're moving on or interested in someone else. Add the reactions of others into the mix, and you've got a recipe for a big misunderstanding.
His protective stance and the weird push for you to find a boyfriend? Classic signs of someone not quite ready to admit their feelings. And that flirting? It's like he's testing the waters without wanting to dive in.
Here's my flirtatious nudge for you: reach out to him, but keep it light and breezy. A simple message like, "Hey, I've noticed you've been a bit distant. Just wanted to check in and make sure everything's cool between us. Missing our chats! 😊" Open the door for communication but don't barge in. It's all about stepping delicately but confidently.
Remember, it's not always about grand gestures or dramatic confrontations. Sometimes, a little nudge and clear communication can unravel the most complicated of knots. Good luck, and may the winds of clarity blow your way!