How is he a douche? What did you think, the sex would guarantee a relationship? Believe it or not, when guys have sex, emotions aren't always involved. It sounds like you had too many expectations out of this entire thing. Ones that he wasn't up to meeting. That's on you, not him. You handled the entire thing kind of immaturely. Ignoring him? Being upset he didn't want to be your boyfriend after hooking up?
You need to get into the real world and understand it's not like the movies. Sex does not equate a relationship, as much as you want it to. It's not some magical turning point between two people and they fall in insta love because they saw each other naked. I know that in an ideal world, a lot of women would like it to be that way, but it just doesn't work like that.
If anything, he should be the one who doesn't want to deal with you. You set up far too many ridiculous standards for just sleeping with the guy and are behaving immaturely and selfishly about the whole thing. It says a lot about you that YOU want to throw away this friendship that you speak so highly of, all over sex and not getting your way afterward. Was he really a friend, or someone you were waiting around for until he decided to date you?
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I think the best you can do is to move on and to accept it as a mistake, no matter how much he says that it isn't. You can pick yourself up and find a better guy and be happy. It's bad if he's a friend and he's willing to take advantage of you even if you let him. that's MORALS, there is a moral issue and if he was a friend and knew how much it meant to you, then he should have stopped.
It is what it is and you shouldn't be too hard on yourself. some girls here are a bit mean but you take advice that helps right? don't repeat the mistake obviously you're not OK with what happened but don't expect that he'll turn around to date you now. take care.
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