Why won't my girlfriend dad and mom not tell me what going on with her? why do they keep me in the dark?

[Anonymous]

why won't my girlfriend dad and mom not tell me what going on with her? why do they keep me in the dark? like what so bad they not want me know? I want know if she a good person and if I should help her. I want know if someone hurt her in the past and is that why she dose the things that she dose? I want try help her if I can.

All I could get was her mom said she know what her daughter dose. her mom seem to care for her and she seem to get along with her mom. she by her mom gift sometime. her mom care when bad thing happen. I have chat with her mom on fb but all she said was she know what her girl dose. why can she not tell me what going on with her? why can she not tell me if someone hurt her? or what I could do to help her? she just said how she not want her to think she is ashamed of her. she dose not have be ashamed that her girl dose bad thing. I just want her help her or tell me what wrong?

her dad dose not say anything me I try call or ask him thing on fb but he dose not say anything. well I try chat with him her give me info fast then act like he want me to go. so I left.

my girlfriend said that someone hurt her in the past but I don't know who. I know from the info I got hurt ex boyfriend use to hit her. she have money issues and issues with her kids and not being able to get them stuff. I want know if her dad and mom help her a bit or at all? I think they do. I want to know if her dad and mom hurt her? I want to know how I can help. all she said she need money all the time. for what. ? If I ask to much she get mad and tell me go away. she said she have a lot going on. I just want know what? I want know if she good or bad?

[Anonymous]

When I was 33 I started hooking up with a 16 year old girl who worked part time in the hotel I worked in. We really hit it off and it was really an intense relationship and it had never been as good with any other even my ex wife, like there was a real spark betweenus straight away. Sex was amazing, no woman had ever responded to me sexually the way she did, everything was so easy, she had the most gorgeous tight little body. She was beautiful way out of my league.

When she was twenty we got engaged and I even introduced her to my daughter who was 10 at the time. Her step father didn't really like me because he thought I was too old for her and he was probably right.

Anyway her mother came back to town after abandoning her family and when I her I instantly recognised her and recognised me straight away. She was an older woman that I had hooked up with when I was 16 had gotten pregnant, offered to marry and she had gotten abortion and never wanted to see me again. I felt sick in my stomach as it all clicked into place, my fiancee as I looked at her looked very similar to my mother in her youth and my sisters. Her mother confirmed that I was her father, she had lied to me because I was just some kid at the time and she already was with another guy she tricked into marrying her by telling him the baby was his. Worst day of my life. My fiancee went on to have a baby by me and we had trouble separating from each other, we had sex all through the pregnancy, a few times she ended up in a mental ward. Eventually I moved states for both our sanity. She gave birth to a healthy boy and eventually met someone, I send money but have never been back, she moved to a with where no one wouldknow. I've two kids and I can't be in their lives.

I used to get so turned on when she called me daddy now it makes me sick to hear it used that way.

[Asker]

That so sad. I ask the girl if we had a kid together she said no and I ask her dad and he said it was some one else. the date do not add up and I forgot that we did not have sex last time. the baby look white when it was born but now it look kind mix. it so sad that a car hit her when she was pregnant. she is ok but the baby mess up I don't know why I look white but now look mix. It maybe not doing good it may die I don't know. I keep think she suffering and he ex boyfriend us to hit her and she have little money and a not legal job. he new boyfriend just give her a phone or he did. I do not know how help her any more and all the people say just walk away cause the kids not mine. all helping dose is hurt me more. she alway said she could not get pregnant cause we use condom. I don't know she must bent with someone else and not use a condom. she can get more guys to sleep with her if she stop useing condom maybe that what she did I don't know. I wish she tell me stuff about what going on and try be a nomal good girl.

[WaterIsland]

Asking for money? That’s a huge red flag.


Tho it’s also a red flag that you’re involving parents so much. It’s not a relationship between you and her parents.

[On_cloud_wine]

My sister would shoot me dead if I said crap about her to her boyfriend.. I asked friends and coworkers and their advice? Let them learn for themselves..

[On_cloud_wine]

Her family obviously doesn’t want to be disowned by their own daughter. But hey.. maybe you can make her a better person. People come into our lives for a reason”!

[Asker]

maybe but she will not change her bad ways. also helping her keep hurting me.