Why would my married ex friend with benefits contact me on Valentines Day?

Anonymous

We had a very intense relationship and we were best friends. But he said I wasn’t the girlfriend type. I stuck with him for every bad relationship and he said sex with me was the best he ever had. He would tell me about all his girlfriends and say how he wished they were like me. But I was never his girlfriend. Just the one he would hang out with, talk to and fuck.

we stopped being friends a few years ago when he got engaged and she got mad when he invited me to his bachelor party. Now he is contacting me and wondering how I’m doing. Does he want to just hook up again? Is he finally coming to his senses and realizing we were meant to be together?

I don’t know if I can handle getting hurt again, but I don’t know if I can handle not trying either.

Why would my married ex friend with benefits contact me on Valentines Day?
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