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Don't assume this is a racist post please thanks. I am a black woman but due to negative experienced from black American women I have chosen not to be bothered with them. Examples, their lack of wanting to achiever better in life. A lot of them prefer to have baby daddies, multiple kids, not pursue a high education, the way they dress ,

are baby mommas, loud, gossip , mean to people, have no faith (religion base). Even me being fit I was criticized for being too thin and eating healthy. They get really jealous too. I just find their behavior odd. I don't get what their problem is and at this point I don't care to figure it out. Their too loud and don't carry themselves appropriate enough to go to a nice area either.

Girliess and boys, so me and this guy been dating about 1 year (last month was our 1 year anniversary)

Lately we start getting into fights like looot , sometimes its me okey we all do mistakes and shit happens but its okey i apologize it never was or will be probleme for me to admit my mistake and say that im wrong, whats really bother me is that even after i apology and show a real regret he won't stop nagging about the subject he keep just talking untill he actually says something hurtful

He is talktive in his nature i really love that about him but sometimes its just no, he crosses the line a create a problem even if its not something serieux anyways latelty he start geting mad on whatever like the last time we fought because he missed heared me! Yes! He said that cursed him while i didn't i was talking about someone else! But i tried to talk and make things cooler

I dont know i start feeling like he doesn't care if i got mad or probably i can forgive him easly (i dont keep nagging about it) i wanna put him in his place again ( im not being toxic) but being kind and understanding doesn't seem to be solution he is really nice guy but i can't really handle those stuff i feel like i have been really easy with him

(I dont need break up with him advice please)