My boyfriend said he couldn’t leave me?

[Anonymous]

I am in a 3 years of a relationship with my boyfriend. We had ups and downs. But recently he broke up with me and he started to talking to another girl. We were living together. After knowing that when I tried to leave he said he can’t leave me. He even stopped talking to that girl and he is being nice to me. But I can’t forget that and I am having a really hard time to make a decision. Should i just stay with him or leave him?

[_Maya_]

Now I don't know if this or true or not but I am getting the vibe that you two broke up and he started talking to another girl pretty quick. That is the sense I am getting from reading your description. Granted you two were broke up but that would bother me if he just moved on from three years that quick even if nothing really became of it. That would tell me that he didn't really value what we had in a long relationship. It is up to you what you do. It is never easy to leave someone but if it were me in your shoes I would break up or stay broken up for good. I wouldn't want to go back to that after he moved on so quickly.

[DishLady]

Look, if you're conflicted, you have to respect your own feelings first. Since you've been together a while you might consider working through your problems honestly and openly, but if you're having serious doubts about your ability to trust the guy... then cut the line with this guy.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Navigating the tricky waters of trust and betrayal, huh? Love can sometimes throw us curveballs, can't it? Your situation is a bit like doing the tango on a tightrope. On one hand, you've got this history and connection, but on the other, there's this elephant in the room named 'Trust Issues'. If he's genuinely apologetic, ceaselessly communicative about his feelings, and transparent about his doings, it might be worth considering giving him a chance to earn back your trust. But, if your gut is giving you the 'red flag' signal or if you find yourself losing pieces of happiness and self-esteem, then maybe it's time to put on your favorite dancing shoes and perform a solo. Remember, it's all about what makes you feel valued, respected, and truly loved. Let your heart lead the way, but don't forget to take your brain with you! 😉💔 ➡️ ❤️

[MsProsperity]

If you love him, stay and keep your options open. If you don’t love him anymore, go

[boobliker]

has he gone and moved out?