Search Results: is he really just busy

Context : My friend and I are arguing, I feel like she's settiting higher expectations aswell as not taking this seriously. Below are 2 texts.

Me:"Okay so I know Ur busy and I know that u can't respond all the time. I also understand that u don't want deep convos all the time and I get that. However I can't be understanding to the point that I ignore how I feel. I feel that we do only talk when u have a college question or issue. I feel that when I speak about "chill" things that u don't want to ask me more. I know that everyone should priorize themselves but at the end of the day if everyone did and I'll use an example :like a road with a give way sign, if no one let the cars into the road and put others first then we would all be in a traffic jam. l think my point is that sometimes Ur too wrapped up in Ur stuff to be aware enough that other things are going on too. I think we do have polar opposite views and that we are at different stages. But it goes beyond that, you need to improve from the inside out too. I think my points are valid and that if I do make mistakes I own up to them, this isn't one of them. I think u need to reflect "

Her:"Like it is valid I haven't been saying they haven't been but I just say my views and how it think it's been a long time since I haven't been able to be who I am and just changed and I really like this me not being a kiss ass or scared to sac speak to someone. Like I'm Not to the point of not acknowledgingp ppls feelings it cuz I don't want to deal with it and don't care and domt hv the time to care or just don't care in general nothing personal I just don't atm but it's still valid. I don't think I hv set expectations like I've just been having convo with u like doesn't mean u hv to look into it deeply. Like nothing for me rn is deep and don't want to think about it. Like I haven't feel like it has changed and idm cuz I don't feel like anything has chnage and we can still just talk about anything literally idm"

I have very few friends left but I don't really mind. I think most friends are either temporary or toxic or at least that's my experience with them so far.

I've got some friends left - we mostly chat online, some live abroad and the others are often busy with their own lives...

Thankfully, I have found a guy who seems to enjoy spending time with me. We text each other when we are both at work, after work we go see each other (hand in hand, always), spend time together. We still do not officially live together but I tend to be over at his place more than back home with my family. When he feels like it (and I do as well), he takes me with him everywhere even when going out with his friends even though they're all guys.

Some of my friends (acquaintances more like) say it's wrong to be with each other so often, but if it works for us, is it truly such a bad thing?

I also see and read articles about this "issue" online.

And just to clarify more, I don't have many hobbies except the very basic simple ones (baking, movies, TV Shows, going to the cinema, eating out, car drives... sleeping & cuddling). I just prefer to do the stuff I like to do with my man ♥