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Many men are afraid to approach girls they don’t know, and women almost never do it; it’s very rare. I used to be scared too but in high school I had a social environment, so I could easily meet girls by finding common ground in classes, and since I was good looking and successful, it was easy. In fact, most of the time, they were the ones who came to talk to me.

When I went to university for engineering, the number of girls decreased a lot. I stayed without a girlfriend for a long time. I got tired of this situation, so one day I approached a random girl I liked in the library, found an excuse to start talking, gave her a compliment, and got her Instagram. While doing this, I was so stressed my hand was shaking when I gave her my phone. But I succeeded it felt like I had unlocked a new skill in flirting.

I’m curious can you cold approach? And are you comfortable doing it?

I think for most people, skydiving creates less stress than cold approaching.

Hi, I haven't dated in real life in several years not because of lack of confidence, energy, not having intersting things to talk about or the fact that no matter how many times i try people just dont try themselves.

What's happened? We use to court people we were generally interested in you know get to know them. You know how many times i've been asked on discord, snapchat, or freaking any social media where girls ask me in a day will you be my boyfriend? Like I see girls complaining about being abused this is one of the exact reasons why.

Like everytime i see a girl now dressing like a thot im just like why. no mans gonna want to be with you long term dressing like that whats the point.

Last time a girl approached me in public im 30 this girl was probably in freaking highschool and she coomes upto me flaunting her cleavage adjusting her boobs and haviong her friend check her ass to see if its haning out of shorts and then struts over to me and goes "hey big boy" to which i reply. "what the fuck you doing you crazy thot your suppose to stay over there not come over here thats why we call you that hoe over there.

Feel free to rant post your stories heck even get a few reply convos going on here.
Like what are your views on how soceity and dating has become what has gotten you so angry that you want gouge out the eyes of your unwillingly victims so sadisctly