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My crush was a little short tempered with me at work the other day. Nothing major, he was just a little abrupt towards me. He is leaving on Friday and he has a lot of work on his shoulders. However, it upset me because I did nothing to deserve it and I know he would never speak to anyone else at work like that.

I gave him a wide berth for the rest of the day and was monosyllabic when he tried to talk to me, which was immature on my part.

Towards the end of the day, he asked me to do an activity and I declined at first but he persisted. He then kept asking me if I’m ok because I was quiet. I said yes and he kept asking “are you sure?”

Would this indicate that he has feelings for me, if he’s concerned that I’m being quiet with him?

I have a gym crush and I'm planning on asking him out. We've been in the same gym for around 4 months, we see each other probably 2 times a week but we never talked. It's hard to smile or even just make eye contact with him, as he's always stuck on his phone with his earphones on. So I was thinking of just coming up to him and say "hey I think you're cute, I was wondering if you were single". Can this be off putting for a guy?

Hey, so I have a huge crush on a male coworker. We are quite close at work and we flirt together. However, we are not in a position to date each other.

I saw him the other weekend and we were both a little drunk. I ended up telling him how I felt about him. I asked him if he liked me back and he said “you’re a lovely person”. I kept asking him, and he kept saying that I’m lovely. Eventually, he said “yes I do, but we can’t be together” and then we had a couple of quick kisses on the lips.

Since then, he’s been awkward around me at work. There is a stark contrast between how he was before and how he is now. He says that everything’s fine and our friendship is unaffected. He even said he didn’t remember what happened, even though I text him the next day apologising and he said it was fine.

Every time I’ve seen him outside of work and we’ve had a few drinks, he’s always been very huggy and has even nuzzled into my hair.

At work, he is hot and cold. He used to stare at me a lot but now he seems to avoid eye contact. And when we have lunch, he used to sit beside me or opposite me. But now he either sits by me but moves his chair further down the table or he sits diagonally opposite me.

I’ve noticed he does still joke with me and his voice goes soft if it’s just us two. Why is he being like this? Does he have feelings for me?

I finished senior year last year and I can’t seem to forget about this guy that was in my class. I had a huge crush on him but he was obnoxious and had a girlfriend so I made it my mission to stay away from him. Nonetheless he would act weird around me from asking and always initiating sexual conversations with me, to laughing at everything I would say (when I wasn’t even trying to be funny), to disrupting the class by trying to steal my phone, to exposing my crush I had on his friend (it was a lowkey cover up) , to him making out with his girlfriend intentionally in front of me, to him randomly sprinting in class and jumping over my chair also on this one costume day at school pushed to take pictures with me and wrapped his arm around my neck and lastly when I confronted him if he had a crush on me , he hysterically and loudly laughed in my face. He had a girlfriend all this time by the way. He would do anything to get my attention , I would curse him out for his disrespectful behavior and also ignore him a lot but that didn’t work , obviously.

I just can’t stop thinking about all the dumb stuff he did , I want clarity.