I met a guy at a dinner through a good friend of mine. I thought he was cool and asked my friend for his insta and dmed him if he would like to get coffee sometime. He said he would love to and was thinking about asking himself. He planned the date himself. He replied late usually but I didn't think much about it. Our first date went well and he even said at the end that he’s glad I asked him out because he would have been way too scared to. He asked me out on a second date the same night and that date went well also. After the second date he didn’t answer my thank you message for three days but finally got back to me and asked me for a third date. The third date went very well also. I thought he would kiss me at the end but didn’t. He ended up coming back to get me since he said he was hungry and on the way back he said he wasn’t really hungry and just wanted to spend time with me. The next day we were texting and I called him out on not kissing me and he said he was just really nervous. He was supposed to come over the day after that but he cancelled. I asked him to hang out one day and he said he couldn’t but he did reschedule. During the fourth date I asked him what he was looking for. He said he wasn’t sure yet. I took that as a nothing serious. I told this to my friend and she admitted that this guy had a giant crush on her around 5 years ago to the point where she led him on and things did not end well and they stopped being friends. They were cordial now though. Looking back at it I would talk about her on all of our dates. I even told him after our second date that she would probably get married soon. He texted me a meme a few days after the fourth date but no one said anything since. It’s been about a week. My friend tells me now he was a player back in the day and knowing that and him not even kissing me makes me feel like he wasn’t into me at all. Should I let this one go?
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Should I let this one go?
