Did this guy have a crush on me or was he just a sociopath?

[Anonymous]

I finished senior year last year and I can’t seem to forget about this guy that was in my class. I had a huge crush on him but he was obnoxious and had a girlfriend so I made it my mission to stay away from him. Nonetheless he would act weird around me from asking and always initiating sexual conversations with me, to laughing at everything I would say (when I wasn’t even trying to be funny), to disrupting the class by trying to steal my phone, to exposing my crush I had on his friend (it was a lowkey cover up) , to him making out with his girlfriend intentionally in front of me, to him randomly sprinting in class and jumping over my chair also on this one costume day at school pushed to take pictures with me and wrapped his arm around my neck and lastly when I confronted him if he had a crush on me , he hysterically and loudly laughed in my face. He had a girlfriend all this time by the way. He would do anything to get my attention , I would curse him out for his disrespectful behavior and also ignore him a lot but that didn’t work , obviously.

I just can’t stop thinking about all the dumb stuff he did , I want clarity.

He had a crush on you

He was a sociopath

Updates

2 mo

I wanted to add another detail this one afternoon afterschool I went to a shop that’s also connected with an atm nearby our school. As I was waiting to get into the atm , I feel him standing behind me but abit far. He’s staring at me then when he passes me he decides to push my head (I don't know if that was an attempt to be playful) but I punched him. Then he left to go smoke with his friends

[razelove]

Did he act like that towards other girls too? Part of why you probably can't stop thinking about it is teenage men and women are horn dogs. I chased down any girls who had a pulse and showed me the time of day in my teens.

I wound up with my girlfriend and first wife likewise. Though there were military benefits involved with the marriage. Could be he had a crush, could be his marbles weren't all there, but it sounds like he definitely wanted to smash.

[Asker]

No he acted this way towards me only, I would observe him a lot. He barely gave other girls attention except for his girlfriend and i (well harassing me). Alright thanks for the opinion.

[spartan55]

Clarity for what? The guy sounds like a total jackass. I'm not sure you understand what a sociopath is.

[Asker]

Yea I called him an asshole multiple times.
Care to educate me on what a sociopath is? In my knowledge it’s someone who exhibits abnormal extreme behavior without lack of awareness of his actions. I equate all his actions and MORE I didn’t mention as sociopathic for a reason bc he was disturbing to me.

[spartan55]

I don't think he has a lack of awareness necessarily, just immature.

[spartan55]

Why are you going on and on trying to get 'clarity'. He's a fucking asshole. An asshole WITH A GIRLFRIEND. So what exactly is the point of all of this?

[Asker]

Okay I get it. You don’t have to be rude about it Tf?

[spartan55]

You just to be conveniently overlooking that fact, so I reminded you.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I couldn't confirm that he truly has crush on you but I can at least suspect that he's contemptible.

[adam6402]

This isn't a crush and isn't a sociopath. He's just a dumbass teenager doing dumbass teenager things.

[BoopBoopBeep]

That's a false dichotomy. Words have meaning. Nothing about his behavior describes a sociopath. He does seem like a douche canoe though.

[strateguy632]

.,1st,

[Anonymous]

Maybe