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This is a genuine question since I feel less hope for humanity being on social media sites like these when people ask so my skewed and carefully coded question, only their perceived ideas on an issue get the 👍, MHO, or what have you…. Even when it is founded in echo chamber-ism. (Read The Whole Details, okay? And don’t point fingers as answers. Don’t point fingers.)

One question asked was “woke” teachers are instilling masturbation, sex toys, etc. in schools and what people thought of it? My critique is, discuss what can / what can’t be discussed in Sex Education…. Maybe discuss if it should be the right of the parent not the right of the school to teach that stuff. Once you use “woke”, anyone who doesn’t conform will be attacked / targetted just for having a different opinion. This is an extreme reaction.(From the Right) though I’ve seen Democrats do this too….

I see another question “Should Trump go to jail for his crimes?” where the polls are skewed, “No because I’m a Dumb MAGA” or “Yes because I use my brain”.(From The Left) though I’ve seen Republicans do this too….

This is a TWO Party issue because it is a PEOPLE issue. As people we are flawed, we can make mistakes, etc. though we should ask open ended questions where we not only expect differing views, we accept them and we don’t attack each other for being male or female… We just get along. Can we just agree to get along and ask more open ended questions?

🛑✋ Stop (From typing something heavily skewed)

🧠 Think (How you are going to phrase this to be open minded)

💚 Go! (Send it and prepare to hear from both sides in a more compromised & logical & rational way without trigger words and hate rather looking at the substance of the answer itself then you have actual meaningful dialogue which may shift your perspective on certain things)

No pointing fingers, just focus on the substance alone… Please.
READ The POLL Carefully Before Voting.

I think most people subscribe to the conventional wisdom: once a cheater, always a cheater. And if their partner cheated, they would immediately end their relationship. But some people say that they would try to forgive and continue the relationship, and especially if there are children involved.

I have never cheated on a partner, but I had two partners cheat on me. The first time, my girlfriend cheated with my roommate, and then they both confessed to me so they could shed some of their guilt. At that point, I decided that I had no future with the girl, but I remained with her just so I could use her for sex. And what was left of the relationship had no pretense of being exclusive. This happened about 44 years ago. If it happened now, I would respond with an immediate and total break up.

The second time, I was already in the process of a divorce when I learned that my wife had cheated while travelling a few months previously. We were already living separately so there was nothing I needed to do.

So, I've never forgiven a cheater and tried to return to a monogamous relationship. Have you? If so, did they cheat on you again? Are you still together or did you break up for some other reason?