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My best friend is in love with an abusive, psychopath.

My best friend is in love with an abusive, psychopath.

I've been friends with my bestie for 2 years. I love her pieces and she's one of the kindest, most amazing friends I've ever had. She has the sweetest heart I've ever came across. I'm just saying this because she's my friend but she is too good for this world but that has its negatives because she gets a lot of people take advantage of her kindest and she finds it hard to see the bad side in people.

My friend is desperate to be loved and she really struggles due to her weight. I'd said she was kind, amazing and sweet etc but not prefect. She loves the fuck boyz and will disregard the nice boys due to there looks which is kinda hypocritical really as harsh as that feels saying and she loves foreign bad boys.

I knew this guy from work long before she arrived and knew he was trouble instantly. He's muldovian and his girlfriend at the time and family all worked at my work. His girlfriend actually has the same name as my best friend and was beautiful and very similar in nature to my bestie. She was sweet and kind but very shy compared this guy let's call him "biv". Biv was emotionally and physically abusive towards her and we all witnessed some level of it at work and tried to help.

He was a vile man towards his colleagues to as well as his little gang. They used to harasse girls at work including myself and bully colleagues. His sister steals from work too but gets away with it by pulling the racist card whenever someone accuses her. Him and everyone around him besides my friend are utter scum.

He eventually got arrested at work for beating his girlfriend so bad he broke her jaw and left her for dead and still came into work. One manger almost got in a fight with him for pushing her into a bush in the carpark once too.

She got a restraining order against him and he was due to go court but her family insisted but she come back home so the charges were dropped.

no one would talk to this guy at work so he tried to befriend new colleagues who didn't know his past including my best friend.

He gave her all the attention she craved and said all the right things. She loves attention and validation. I love her but she's so desperate to be liked and fit in because she's very Insecure.

Everyone's tried to warn her including myself and mangerment. Even his own friends have told her he's bad news but she's madly in love with him. He could Violently murder a family and if he said he was innocent with the blood on him she'd believe him.

He constantly changes his story to her about what happened to his girlfriend and even claims to be thr victim and she still believes him.

He constantly emotional abuses her and takes advantage of her. He knows how she feels about him and uses it against her.

He's a utter monster. The amount of times I've had her crying down the phone to me about him. She's lost all her friends even life long ones because of him and I'm the only one still holding on to her.

They've done sexual stuff together and then he threw it back in her face. She's a virgin and she'd never done anything like that with anyone and she trusted him. Rumour has it he flimed it and showed his friends but I don't know how ture that is but I know for sure he told all his mates she's easy because ever since they've all tried it on with her.

His roomate threw himself at her and when my friend told "biv" she loved him. He said he couldn't be with her because of her reputation and that she's a slut basically because of what happened with his roommate apparently he told him they had sex which never happened and i don't believe that's ture either and he was just using it as excuse .

She still went back to him as a friend after that and he plays her like a fiddle. He uses her for lifts to the airport, money and just essentially a taxi. He's always asking for money and asking her to help him to transfer money over to his family back home.

Me and her other ex friends think he's up to know good and is involve in some Illegal activity and is using her name for it. He's always on the phone to his so called Italian girlfriend who live in Italy and has no pictures of and still sleeps around with other women and talks in russian too her over the phone too 🤔.

Even her family think he's a good man because he puts on a fake act for them. On her 21st birthday I left work early to come and I bought my husband too. He was there loving all the attention even did a speech for her in his zara suite in pigeon English which was basically ball shit.

He was on the phone the entire night to his Italian girlfriend and me and her friends call him out on it. He even had the cheek to ask my husband how much he earns. Him and my husband have also nearly been in physical fights in the past because of trying to protect me from him in the past and he threw water over him 🤣.

We left the party early as I had work the next day and he took offence more like he was trying to reflex his bad behaviour at the party on me. He said he doesn't want my friend to hang around with me anymore or to go to my wedding because of this.

Now I have to pretend I'm not there when he calls up asking for something from her and he got mad with her for coming to my wedding.

When she doesn't give him what he wants straight away he emotional blackmails her and says stuff like "I just think you don't care about me" .

I'm thinking of going to police and trying to see if I can find anything on him because I think there's a new law were you can find out people's criminal past if you have a concern about a partner or a loved ones partner but that might just drive her further towards him.

I tell her she's a grown women...she's 21 and can make her own life mistakes but I genuinely hate him with every being in my soul.

My best friend is in love with an abusive, psychopath.
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