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I’ve been single for 11 years. The first time I’ve been in a relationship was when I were 13 years old. She was my best friend and then confessed that she loved me, I didn’t want to lose her so we went in a relationship for 3 years I fell in love with her however she cheated on me. Since that very moment I’m not able to have a female friend or even fall in love with one. Women tend to lie often ( they’re not able to say the truth) and change their words. I love women and I believe there’s good women out there it’s just that I didn’t get to meet one yet. I’ve been dating different types of women with different characteristics and nationalities it feels like they’re all the same. It’s either the girl doesn’t want to do an effort or she gives false promises for meeting up bla bla ( most probably she’s talking to other guys as well). I don’t want to be a single guy forever but because of these experiences I’ve cooped with being single and I believe it’s a safety mechanism for me to conserve what’s left in me.

I saw this happen a lot when I was younger. Admittedly I would sometimes get jealous/frustrated when an attractive woman choose a lesser attractive man over me just because he was “really funny”. And these men were also mediocre at other aspects in their lives (work, hobbies, etc.). Some of them were bums and/or scum bags.

Then I got older/mature and I shifted my position to “well I have to give credit where credit’s due”. If I saw an average looking guy pull a hot woman then I had a “good for you man” attitude. If I saw an attractive woman date some abusive asshole then I had “well you are going to get what you signed up for” attitude as well. And when these women got burned I refused to give them a shoulder to cry if they had the nerve to come crying to me about it.

But now I believe men are being judged more harshly by women on their looks more then ever before. Our digitized society has pushed it with social media and dating apps. But they some of them are just as judgmental as guys used to be (or worse). The only exception would be if the guy has money and/or fame.