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Why is that some days I just hate being a woman because of society? Why do I feel that way?

I am not crazy. Please don't tell me that my feelings are not valid because they are. And, no. I do not want a sex change. I love men, so it's not most of their fault. Some days though, I just hate the expectations that I...
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Why does my mother always speak in a harsh tone every time I make a mistake?

She always does that and it makes me feel awful. Even if I were to admit being at fault and apologize, it's not enough for her. She yells, hurls insults and keeps berating you about your mistake nonstoppable. At times...
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Guys, Why do guys always fall for the lost/clueless gal act?

I was listening to a guy friend tell me about YET ANOTHER gal who basically mooched off him for months only to leave him high and dry. He is sitting there sipping a drink looking all pissed so I hollered at him to just...
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Do You Complain About Your Partner To Others?

I have a lot of girlfriends who do constantly. I often know all of their bfs/husbands faults, and shortcomings. Growing up, my parents had 2 rules that I follow to this day. 1) Never complain or say something negative...
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Guys, What does it mean when he says this?

So we are planning on an airbnb soon plus a restaurant and a movie we've known each other for a long time on and off and he's admitted it's his fault for it and making situations difficult like avoidant ghosting and his...
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Can you handle the truth about the Renee Goode shooting?

The Minneapolis ICE shooting story is not going in the direction that the Left wants it to. The Left wanted another George Floyd outrage. They wanted Renee Good to be just a kindly fresh-faced, smiling lesbian mother of...
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Do You believe he thinks I'm stupid for letting him disrespect me for this long or no?

My boyfriend and I had been on and off for 8 years. I use to let him use my car, I paid for his house etc.. i even went far letting him stay in my home for free around my daughter. Sadly, though, Every time I needed help...
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Is Tim Walz kidding?

He is blaming ICE agents. He says that the federal government is at fault because they do not communicate with Minneapolis officials. The truth is that local law enforcement was told not to offer any assistance to ICE...
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How come, when a woman gets raped after they both have been drinking, the woman gets blamed for it while its seen as an excuse for the man?

A woman gets told ”Oh but you shouldn’t have been drinking, its your fault” But a man is told ”Oh but he was drunk, it was a mistake he shouldn't have to suffer the concequences of his actions” And YES YOU HAVE...
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What should I do, is he actually trying his best or should I just end of all here?

I will try my best to stay neutral here, but this is happening with me rn, and I tend to also obsess over the bad things. So I, 28 F, in India, have been in the arrange marriage process since almost 2 years, I've talked...
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Don’t self-improvement books for women tend to spoil them by framing everything as the world’s fault?

Yesterday, I went to the self-improvement section of the library and noticed a clear difference between books aimed at men and those aimed at women. Many of the books targeted at men focus on self-discipline,...
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I can't help but feel guilty for my friends leaving me. Did I do something incredibly wrong?

So long story short, I had a falling out with my friend group because of me miscommunicating their words to each other. One friend started spending less time with us, the rest of us felt bad and talked about it, the said...
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Why are women blamed for mens actions? can't men just be better?

Like if a man leaves her with a child, its her fault because she chose him. Even tho men can change and manipulate for years. Why are men allergic to accountability?
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Should men hide emotions?

For this, i want both sides to be brutally honest, so I will, too. I'm an ex alcoholic who had significant emotional issues for years that was caused by me having a bad, negative attitude. That out of the way, I wonder...
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For this, i want both sides to be brutally honest, so I will, too. I'm an ex alcoholic who had significant emotional issues for years that was caused by me having a bad, negative Show More
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What are your new years commitments?

As part of my commitment to my new outlook on life, I've realized that my negativity has been the sole thing holding me back. No big, mean federal agents knocked on my door like I feared they would if my political...
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Who do you think should be at fault?

The scenario: 17 Jimmy breaks into friends house and steals a legally stored and secured firearm. Friends dad, Joe, doesn't realize gone is gone (he's on vaca or jimmy covered his tracks well). Jimmy uses the gun in a...
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The scenario: 17 Jimmy breaks into friends house and steals a legally stored and secured firearm. Friends dad, Joe, doesn't realize gone is gone (he's on vaca or jimmy covered his Show More
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How do I rekindle with this girl?

I matched and spoke to this 10/10 stunning girl 1.5 months ago. She seemed nice, I spoke to her during a period where I was really busy. We were going to meet up, but I think I accidentally communicated disinterest by not...
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I matched and spoke to this 10/10 stunning girl 1.5 months ago. She seemed nice, I spoke to her during a period where I was really busy. We were going to meet up, but I think I Show More
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If you have been the scapegoat when shit hits the fan in a relationship, among family members, at work, why do you think you're an easy target?

Not that none of it is your fault, just in the sense that they make it seem like it's all your fault or you're the one holding them back and shit like that
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Not that none of it is your fault, just in the sense that they make it seem like it's all your fault or you're the one holding them back and shit like that Show More
People just don't like me/I rub them the wrong way
I'm surrounded by narcissists
They think I'm weird to begin with, so it makes it easier to go after me
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My boyfriend is blaming me for my SA?

My boyfriend is completely blaming me for my sexual assault, and it’s clearly damaging our relationship. I was sexually assaulted about one to two weeks ago. When I first told him, he blamed me, then we supposedly “moved...
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Why did my coworkers give me the cold shoulder for missing work and the kids holiday performance?

I got sick last Wednesday and I think my coworkers are upset because I was unable to be at the Christmas holiday show. We’ll I could not get people sick. Two days later I got better and I said I felt bad for not being...
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