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Partnerships, relationships, and friendships all derive on making things work and cooperation with eachother to finding solutions together which make a bond stronger. So if both people are always willing to cooperate with eachother and willing to help make things work no matter what happens, then breakups just shouldn't happen.
However it seems like as soon as one side refuses to cooperate and communicate, they just pull the plug on the relationship and it all just ends despite them being with someone who is always willing to listen communicate and cooperate.
But yeah basically what I'm saying is i think breakups never really Absolutely have to happen if the partner is honestly good. What does need to happen is better cooperation understanding and communication from both.
It may be just because I'm just a guy that never really sees the need to break apart good things that honestly aren't broken. Until something substantially bad happends. Like if your partner just treated you like shit in every way then yeah i could see people not being willing to try anymore for a person like that then.

But what do you think? Can't most breakups be avoided?

TL;DR At the bottom.

Don't get me wrong, I've met TONS of stupid people in real life. But people online seem to be on a whole nother level.

Like when people in real life don't like me they'll just say they don't like me/insult me/tell me to fuck off/whatever and move on quickly. That or they'll just ignore me or avoid me. But people online will write multiple spaced paragraphs about how much they hate me and how much of a piece of shit they think I am and how much better they are than me.

I've also seen like guys online who don't even wipe their ass after taking a shit because they think that "it's gay to touch their butt." No one I met in real life has had this mindset, even the stupidest person I ever met in real life.

In some cases you could say people are joking, but in other cases they're not. Like if a person says an absurd thing once, they could be joking. But when they start getting super defensive and spend hours having back and forths with people online and possibly even making death threats, then I don't think they're joking anymore.

People online also seem to be extremely cruel. Like I remember some people online saying stuff like "I don't give a shit if children are raped because I hate children anyway, so fuck them. Child molestors are doing society a favor, people need to stop having kids. The younger generations are all a bunch of pussies and snowflakes and we don't need any more of them." And when people called them out they spent hours arguing back and forth. No one I met in real life is this psychotic.

So yeah... I've met stupid people in real life, but people online, holy shit...

TL;DR From my personal experience, no, people in real life aren't as stupid as people online. I've known a lot of dumb motherfuckers in real life too, don't get me wrong, but people online are on a whole nother level.