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Is this message considered a breakup?

Here’s the breakdown of what I’m worried about. On December 14, we had this conversation. She sent me a long message explaining that she’s been extremely exhausted physically, mentally, and emotionally. She’s been working...
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Why do we always see the dumpers as the villains, while in truth, it’s the dumpees who drove them to the break up?

In my last relationship I was in a relationship where I broke up with him first but we reconciled and then he broke up with me finally. I was devastated and loved and hated him at the same time. I am in my 2nd...
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Please help me understand what just went wrong?

I’ve had a friend (we’ll call him Ralph) who for the longest time, everyone thought we would end up together. We were coworkers at one point and in the same friend group and in both settings, people just assumed we would...
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Should I be concerned?

Need your advice on something please. My partner whos bern through channeling bad stuff has been effected by it mentally resulting in a change of self esteem, fear to loose me, jealousy over nothing. We're doing what we...
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What are the absolute dealbreakers or red flags for you to know that you need to breakup immediately?

I know many people had messy exes. But what do people consider as a dealbreaker in relationships? What redflags could point you that its a relationship not worth chasing or fighting for?
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Unbalance in how much time you spend together?

I have had a few serious relationships in the past, unfortunately one on them got mental, the other developed an addiction after something devestating happened in his life to help get him through. Both these guys came...
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A Reminder at Christmas...

Holidays can be a time of happiness, joy, festivities, indulgence, and relaxation. Sharing holidays can form newfound connections, long-lasting memories, and deeper relationships. But not everyone gathers at a tree. Not...
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Did my boyfriend fall out of love with me?

I'm in an NM relationship, and things have been fine for the most part. I'm like “the main chick,” meaning that I get to hang out with his friends and meet his parents. This has been used by him to assure me that “our...
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Do guys like loud social club girls with tattoos as gfs or quiet nice good girls as a girlfriend?

I noticed all girls that have tattoos are the ones in serious relationships. They talk a lot chatty funny curse , talk shit of people and the guy loves her. I quiet and good girl too nice and no guy wants be my boyfriend....
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How can people be like this?

Long story short, I had an ex [LDR] with whom I stayed 8 months for. Well the relationship was going very good for the first months. Then slowly I started recognising a toxicity pattern. Like DARVO , Gaslighting ,...
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How can you have alone time in relationships?

I am a college student, currently in my finals week which is making me lose so much energy to function as a human being. I’ve communicated to my boyfriend that I am exhausted from being on campus until midnight to...
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Is it normal to be rejected for sex or why is he making excuses?

5 yr relationship. he's going through a lot in his business, major life issues. Oh he's older man like 50 and drinks Lately I've caught him lying to me about hos plans, schedule and whereabouts. Mostly to avoid seeing me...
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How do you handle Double standards in relationship?

Pls I know this is long but I need help and perspective My boyfriend and I has been together for over 8 months He got a lot of issues especially his friendliness with girls, he got many girl best friend's most of them he...
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Does anyone have reasonable opinions on dating in 2025?

A bit about me. 38, M. Widower. I've been faithful in my relationships and not into the tinder deal style of relationships. I look for integrity and communication, even if the subject is uncomfortable and work through the...
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How would you handle this situation? I'm trying to move on?

My guy friend and I had been friends for 4+ years (our relationship became complicated) when he decided that he was going to date my friend after we had gotten close basically dating but he never asked me out and tried to...
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Why are most people so concern about relationships and finding a partner than becoming successful?

Why do you think so many people place more importance on relationships and finding a partner than on becoming successful or building their own future? It’s like, in today’s world, heartbreak hurts people more than...
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Why focus on something else than the actual issue?

Doing therapy wirh my partner, he's actually the one doing most of it, no wonder considering what he's been through and going through, and I feel at this point I've wrecked my brain on issues like everything from shoe...
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Am I sabotaging a good man or is he moving too fast and crossing my emotional boundaries?

I’ve been talking to a guy since May. He’s kind, respectful, emotionally available and very serious about me. He openly talks about marriage and a future together. On paper, he’s everything I say I want, a loyal,...
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Can I trust him? Am I just overthinking?

I can't tell if I am overthinking this situation or if I should be genuinely concerned. My boyfriend of several months has an ex who he still keeps in touch with. They split up a year or so before we met. I have never met...
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Need help what to do?

So i met the guy only once, i really liked him and felt like he liked me too. He asked for a second date while we were still on a date. also we met after a long time of chatting, but not consistent. Main reason is he is...
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