Search Results: should i contact him

My boyfriend broke up with me because he didn’t want to hurt me. Has anyone gone through this and what happened?

My boyfriend and I (both 19) were together for seven months. We met when neither of us was looking for a relationship and everything unfolded so beautifully. However by the time we reached the 5th month mark ; there was a...

Itskearraa

Xper 1 Age: 20

Have you been the recipient or SUBJECT of a SECURITY ALERT?

If you are on a dating site, it is very like that you havsr received: e been in at least one and MAYBE BOTH of these categories. Here is an alert I just received. Hello Anon: Unfortunately, someone who contacted you -...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Asked girl out, she never got back, now she texts me a month later?

Met this girl a few months ago. Started chatting and getting to know her. One day after a nice conversation, I gathered up the courage to ask her to dinner and she said yes. Later that day I texted her to arrange a day,...

FatalFury

Xper 5 Age: 41

Why don’t Friends with Benefits treat you like a friend?

My ex-FWB (I don’t even know if I should even consider her a friend) only contacted me when it was convenient for her (which was for favors and sex). One day, she tells me that we should just be friends and the very next...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

What is something you did to yourself that still hurts?

I found a song that really resonated with me, so I wrote my own lyrics about my breakup using the songs words/melody. Some parts said "reading about it turning the pages and pages allowing myself to fade in the story...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boyfriend still hurt for a previous relationship?

Some background : we are in our 50s, my current 3 months boyfriend had a relationship live in girlfriend for 7 years that ended almost a year ago. We had a weekend getaway this last weekend. I checked his phone.. I should...

geeklatina

Xper 5 Age: 50

My fiancé and mom dont get along, but I want both at the wedding, what should I do?

So my fiance and mom had a falling out over a year ago. My mom is known for being controlling and stubborn. My boyfriend made a comment years ago about something family related (an innocent comment at that), and my mom...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was this a set up by his friend bc he likes me?

So basically there’s this boy in my class I really like we haven’t talked but we make a lot of eye contact, we’be held eye contact for 5 seconds before, we look at each other a lot, and we hold eye contact and I’ll smile...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Should I walk Away?

My partner and I have been together for 10.5 years. I’m 38 and he’s 50. We met when I was 26 and he was 39. He’s very old fashioned, is very goal driven and has high demands for himself and his relationship with me and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

A guy tells me how much he misses me, but I’m so confused?

So I worked with a guy for a few weeks at the start of the year. He seems like a really lovely person and I got vibes he might be into me (staring at me a lot, being flirty, getting in my personal space, seeming to be...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

Losing friends into my 30s?

This might get long but I need to rant. I'm 31M, and 2 years ago my best friend of over 20 years blocked me.. We were on vacation 2 years ago together and he tried inviting a bartender back to the hotel room (that I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

How do you make a disfellowship person you no longer want to have a relationship with them?

An ex sister from the congregation I attend has been disfellowship well lest just say she was living a crazy life. This past Sunday in the annucements elder mention my now ex friend has been disfellowship and is no longer...

Flowersareawsome22

Xper 4 Age: 33

What does he want from me?

Hooked up with a guy out of state about 5 weeks. He has stayed in contact since then. He randomly views my socials even though he doesn’t follow me he’ll like them. He’ll call randomly. Sometimes I send him funny memes...

Anonymous

(25-29)

General thoughts?

This guy I contacted l know he was hurt before but lm not sure of his interest. In person he smiles at me and is near me and looks at me. But over text He doesn’t text unless l text him first. His replies are not dry,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Why does she reinitiate after suggesting no contact?

This girl and i kept getting into a fight over the same thing and usually it eventually got settled but now i was just done and kept going. Sometimes we didn’t talk for a couple of days but last Thursday it happened again...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

It’s perfectly fine to not want to talk to people who are indifferent?

I’m specifically speaking on someone I was interested in we all know how you can get labeled and called a weirdo around town for nothing. Honestly someone talking to you or speaking to you only when it’s convenient or...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Advice about friends with benefits?

I was in a friends with benefits situation recently, he spent a few months pursuing me sending weekly messages. We hooked up and been seeing each other on and off for months. I tried to distance myself from him a few...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Education & Career

Should the "undue hardship" standard to discharge student loans be extended to apply to personal student loans such as student loafrom family members?

You may have your federal student loan discharged in bankruptcy only if you file a separate action, known as an "adversary proceeding," requesting the bankruptcy court find that repayment would impose undue hardship on...

Kelley1

Yoda Age: 21