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She says she prefers dark‑skinned guys but still compliments me—mixed signals or hiding interest?
I’m trying to decode a girl’s behavior. Here is the timeline: The Indirect: She mentioned that she likes light-colored eyes (I’m the only one in our group with light eyes, so it felt pointed). The Validation: She...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is dating so hard as an autistic woman nearing 30?
I went on a couple dates with some guys and it just didn’t go far. No second dates. in February I talked to this guy for a couple weeks and last month we went on our first date. It was great until he said he doesn’t...
Anonymous
(25-29) I like a girl with no friends—what does that mean for a relationship?
I met a girl who I'm into and I'm pretty sure she has no friends. She only does stuff with her family and recently with me. What could be reasons for people not having friends. She never goes out at all, her only pass...
RiseofArtemis
Xper 6 Age: 25 Did he see it as a date or just hanging out, and why the sudden rejection?
Im F/27 and he’s M/31 We knew each other casually about the 12 years ago and have run into each other maybe 1-3 times over the years through social gatherings of mutual friends. He moved to another state. We never talked...
KatieMarie072019
Xper 1 Age: 27 Do the adventure-filled hobbies sound like a good way to feel alive?
I have versatile hobbies, I like exploring the most, exploring my own city, whether through the cafes or the streets or museums and galleries, I enjoy meeting my friends and trying new things and places with them, I also...
Anonymous
(36-45) I’ve lost all interest in dating—how do I handle men who keep pursuing me?
Yes , I lost interest in dating and love 15 years ago, but I have men trying to pressure me to date them - has anyone reached this place and what did you do? Yes , I've told these men I'm not seeking anything, but they...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is her ‘busy schedule’ real or is she losing interest in me?
To make the long story short, I met this girl online. We hit it off very well. She has initiated the first couple of days after we exchanged phone numbers. She told me she would be away this weekend so we couldn’t go...
Alex71613
Xper 5 Age: 32 What is our situation in Iran?
The war is not a skirmish. It is a war with geopolitical consequence with the power to set us toward continued prosperityor close off vital interests. Up to last week, Iran had no intention of negotiating with us. Iran’s...
Dargil
Master Age: 36 Is it fair to end things if he’s flaky and won’t commit to real plans?
So we’ve got 4th date on Monday or Wednesday, he asked me out but he still hasn’t confirmed it exactly when. And today he seems to be at home and is texting me from there, even though he said he wasn’t sure if he would be...
How social are choir groups and church groups for making friends?
I am a very social person but I’m struggling a lot with depression. My mum tells me it’s because I’m bored. I’m smart and I’m not being challenged enough. I already attend an Autistic social group. I’m thinking of joining...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Is he still interested after a great first date and then going silent?
I met this guy on a dating app about 3 weeks ago. I sent out the like first. We matched the next day and we started talking right away. He came in very strong and looked very interested. He would reply fast, flirt, make...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I reject a man politely while making my no feel final?
I’m trying to understand how to handle this better. I’ve posted of this situation last week, where I told a guy I don’t see a connection to proceed with the 2nd date but he still persists. I went on a date with a guy — he...
Does wearing rings on certain fingers signal she is taken or interested?
I could tell a very long story of a complicated situation between a coworker and me, but I will try not to tell the whole story. We have been flirting for quite some time now, she even crossed physical boundaries (giving...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Did he really like me or just fake interest before ending things? And why did he end it so suddenly?
We had our third date on a Friday. We went to the cinema and afterwards he immediately asked me if I wanna go for a coffee or something else to drink. So we went to a bar, had a deeper conversation than before but he...
joanjane12
Xper 2 Age: 25 Has a teacher ever said or done something that stayed with you long after you left their class?
It’s interesting how sometimes the things that stay with you the longest have nothing to do with what was actually being taught in class… So…I had a dance teacher in high school who would single me out in front of...
7Phoenix7
Guru Age: 35 Does this boy like me or am I delulu?
Okay so I need your HONEST opinion on something 😭 There’s this guy in my coaching. He’s very quiet, like extremely reserved, barely talks to anyone, usually sits alone (either first bench corner or last bench...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do some women get angry when a man who they friend zoned, chooses to move on and find a girlfriend?
I would like to preface this with, Yes i know i did most of this to my self, and i was even more stupid for letting it carry on for 5 years. There is a coworker i was interested in for years. she's 29 now, athletic,...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is my male best friend secretly sabotaging my love life because he loves me?
Every guy that I was interested in, my guy friend gets very angry, jealous or tell them that I was his girlfriend. Then guys get angry at me for “lying” and moved on. I can’t even meet guys anymore thanks to my guy...
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, How do I get a man's attention without being annoying?
There's a man I'm interested in and I'd like to get to know him better. Here's the thing, though. In the past, men have told me that I'm annoying, pesky, etc. I really like this guy and I don't want to push him away. For...
jazzy34
Guru Age: 36 