Search Results: give and take

Found out she ghosted me for a reason?

Today I found out why this girl ghosted me. We work in the same building, but not same departments. I got her phone number and texted her saying I would love to take her out tomorrow, she ghosted me for four months. Today...

Ltk2534

Xper 1 Age: 24

Holidays

WWhat's the best Christmas gift you've ever given or received?

A COUPLE YEARS AGO I GAVE MY MOM $700 TO TAKE MY NIECES TO MYRTLE BEACH

Jmmmfi4

Master Age: 45

Guys, What is your take?

Hi everyone, It was my boyfriend's birthday recently, and I surprised him in a big way. I started the month with a gift and then planned a weekend getaway with our friends for his actual birthday. After we returned, I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is he interested? If yes, what do I need to do?

I met this guy at work, he works here since summer and we never really talked. I work on Saturdays and two more evenings in the week. He works there fulltime everyday. When we started to talk it was bit off and awkward,...

Jayde21

Xper 5 Age: 24

My Supervisor Seems A Little Overly Friendly?

She took over for a bad boss so I don't want to complain too much, but she compliments me a lot, saying I am super smart, gives me leeway in assignments, told our boss that I deserve a raise, and is pushing for me to work...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do adults tell kids, teenagers ot us young adults to stop growing up and joke with them?

I swear adults need to take a chill pill. It’s not our fault that you’re getting old. When my niece and nephew came one of my aunts was like, “You guys are growing up way to fast! Stop it!!! You’re making me old!” Then...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Should I take my ex-boyfriend back?

Hello all. My ex-boyfriend and I broke up in the Summer. It was a mutual decision (but it was more on my part) but nonetheless it was painful. He texted me today asking me if there's a chance of us giving it another shot...

ItsJill

Xper 6 Age: 30

Guy's Behavior

Can a guy who negs stop negging? What should I do if I want to give a negger another chance? ?

I’m a lifelong bullying victim. Needless to say I probably have very low self esteem deep down and so I really can’t take the negging stuff some guys like to do. He took it too far recently and I really just can’t take...

Partygirlsj

Xper 1 Age: 34

Would a man still have to pay on the first date even if it was the woman who made the first move and asked him out?

So I met this female colleague of mine from a higher rank of my work, and we've been friends for 2 months now. She immediately confessed her feelings on me and said that she would like to take me out on a date. I don't...

nonchalantindividual

Xper 1 Age: 27

Society & Politics

Do you think a million dollars is a lot of money?

I read it would take an average American 25-30 years to make that money factoring in expenses and taxes. 15-20 for a bit higher earners If my family wasn’t very wealthy I’d be panicking. I still need to work very hard,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I read it would take an average American 25-30 years to make that money factoring in expenses and taxes. 15-20 for a bit higher earners If my family wasn’t very wealthy I’d be

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Guy's Behavior

Is he interested in me too?

Jayde21

Xper 5 Age: 24

Should I help my job or get revenge?

I’ve worked at my concierge job for a year and a 1/2. I started off full time then went PT because I was a college student and had to go back to classes. I eventually graduated and stayed pt for about a year because we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, I am mean to men and they love it -why?

I used to be a soft lover girl and got zero results with men. I have started to have strict boundaries and I am mean with men now. I give no verbal validation. I am not bubbly, kind and friendly like I used to be. I am...

Unrealiseddream

Xper 4 Age: 40

Am I being unreasonable?

So I’ve got family staying over this winter my aunt and three cousins all for free. My family is not in the best financial position currently. On top of that I’m in the worst position I’m not making much and I don’t have...

MLGbreezy

Yoda Age: 27

Do you think it would be a big deal if I were to leave my community service at a different time than usual?

I've been volunteering at good will for my community service. When I was filing out my papers with the manager, I put 2-5 as the time I can work. Also i put down 3 hours, so thats how many hours i work each day. I usually...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I am offended that my brother seems to want to ONLY take trips with his now wife, and not me/our other brother?

Sometimes I'll get him to do something for the day (Only if she is working all day in the hospital of course), but he won't go anywhere with us! If I had a wife I would never treat him that way, and I'd make time for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you think of the idea of delayed professional gratification in your education and professional life?

My oldest Canadian uncle got a PhD in China and took over ten years to get a job in his field of study when he became a Canadian citizen. He later made a very good salary until retiring in his 70's. I find it's taken me...

jennifer_bloom

Master Age: 41