What do you think of the idea of delayed professional gratification in your education and professional life?

[jennifer_bloom]

My oldest Canadian uncle got a PhD in China and took over ten years to get a job in his field of study when he became a Canadian citizen. He later made a very good salary until retiring in his 70's.

I find it's taken me over 5 years to figure out how to live my life and use the degree I got in university all those years ago, and looking back, I'm not sure why I chose the path I did, but it works, so I don't regret choosing the path that I did.

Just like it's taken years for me to realize which dating option is best for me. The thing that finally made me realize what I want is that I tried to write a self help book on dating for others and when I read the advice I was planning to give others, I realized I had not been following my own advice.

[AI Opinion]

Delayed professional gratification can be immensely rewarding, as seen in your uncle's journey. It allows time for personal growth, reflection, and refining one's path, ultimately leading to fulfillment and success. Your experience highlights the importance of introspection and adaptability. Realizing that your choices, whether in career or personal life, shape you over time can be powerful. Writing your book on dating seems to have offered valuable self-insight, helping align actions with your aspirations. Embrace the journey, trusting that each step, even if gradual, contributes to your long-term goals and personal growth.