Search Results: time to let go

Hey there y'all! I'm posting questions again, and I'm picking back up with the Couple Series. If you aren't dating, feel free to still share your thoughts on what you would enjoy :)

So I have two questions, one multiple choice (respond in the poll) and one open response (respond in the comment section).

1) Would you and/or your enjoy playing a game where one partner can't say "no" (unless, of course, the request/idea is unreasonable/unsafe) for an entire day or has to say "yes" to five requests/ideas?

2) If the answer is yes, what (let's say 5) requests/ideas would you come up with?

For me and Raine:
1. Sleep in together 😂 we both work pretty hard and LOVE the few days we get a guilt-free sleeping in pass.
2. Go on a hike and see some nature. Again, this is something we both really enjoy, but don't always do because of time restraints.
3. Shower and then bathe together. After a hike, bathing is going to be really nice. It will also help our muscles relax so that we can sleep well that night and not wake up sore.
4. Watch a romance or drama together since we both enjoy movies/shows.
5. Talk together while cuddling before going to sleep. Those sweet moments mean so much to us.

I just had another woman lie to me about wanting to meet up for a date but kept making excuses at the last second to bail. This went on for a few weeks.

But she kept texting me to chat. And we texted a lot. It was clean chat too and not sexting.

I was patient at first but finally after three weeks I said “I need to know if we are going to meet up or not” (politely). She said she definitely wanted to meet up and then when I said “okay can you let me know a good time” and she went silent. She only said “happy 4th” and I said happy 4th back but then I deleted her number. Haven’t heard from her sense.

Anyway she just wanted virtual/text attention for validation despite telling me in the beginning she would be interested in friends with benefits. Yes I met her on dating app but we were both verified and she was local. I am a bit older so I was patient at first. But it turned out to be a huge waste of time and she had to lie about wanting to meet up just because she didn’t want me to stop texting her.

But this crap happens a lot to guys nowadays. Just curious if women have any lingering guilt/regrets about doing this to them later. I doubt they do tbh.