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There's this guy who has a crush on me. The first time we texted, he was flirty and sweet and even said he loved me. However, now when I text him, he takes hours to respond, and his messages are dry; when I snap him, he leaves me open while his snap score goes up (I even asked for a pic of him to assign to his contact, and he told me that he doesn't like taking photos; then I check his snap score and it went up). I'm confused and don't understand why he's suddenly changed his behaviour.

Or do they not? 28F, getting matches on the apps aren’t the issue it’s just always the usual: convos fizzling out, ghosting, not a good match, weirdos etc. I usually don’t message guys first, I swipe right on profiles first once in a while but I usually match with them once they like me first. I used bumble before almost 2 years ago & never again, the guy seemed normal but he was one of the most annoying people I’ve met & I only knew him for 3 days. The point I’m trying to make is: do you all actually put yourselves out there when matching with guys on the apps/in person or do the quality matches just come your way? Asking since you’re attractive & it’s usually assumed the guys will come your way… or am I generalizing? Can’t help but feel like good looking women don’t have to work to find someone