Guy said "lol you're weird 😂" after I flirted w him am I actually weird or does he just not flirt w girls and being awk?

[kareenakapur]

so yeah i was flirting w him lowkey saying kinda weird flirting remarks but whatever I'm a flirty girl he says "lol you're weird 😂 " if u weren't interested, you wouldn't even message back that I'm weird right like I'm conf. does he want me or am i just creeping him out saying weird shit. Back story this man hearts all my sexy gym snaps has asked for nudes once) He has left me on read at some point but still hearts all my snaps. I'm leaving it on read but like am i just weird.

[Anonymous]

It's important to remember that everyone's perception of flirting and communication styles can be different. When he said, "lol you're weird," it may not necessarily mean you're weird; he might not be used to your style of flirting. The fact that he engages with your content and has shown some interest in the past suggests he might be interested, but his response could also indicate some uncertainty or awkwardness on his part. It's a good idea to have an open and honest conversation with him to clarify your intentions and his feelings. Communication can help you both understand each other better.

[MrOracle]

You might actually be weird, but that's not necessarily a bad thing or a disqualifier. It may be for some guys, but for others, it just makes you interesting and stand out from the crowd.

[kareenakapur]

lol was going to leave him on read instead i sent him a selfie and said "its called rizz lol" maybe i am just weird lol

[MrOracle]

See, I would think that was hilarious and would likely start more conversation. But maybe he just isn't a great personality match for you. Good luck in any case.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I think it's weird to flirt with a stranger, but you are both flirting, so it makes you both weird. Weird doesn't automatically mean bad either, in many other contexts being weird is a positive or even a requirement, so if he likes that kind of weird (which seems to be the case) then he's probably not creeped out.

Also, I message back women I'm not interested in dating/being with as long as they aren't rude, so in a hypothetical context where he's not flirting with you, responding to messages isn't automatically showing interest.

[kareenakapur]

lol was going to leave him on read instead i sent him a selfie and said "its called rizz lol" maybe i am just weird lol

[TheSpaceGnome]

Whats a rizz? 🤔

[Anonymous]

I know whenever I go to workout and do some lifting what my real priority is: sexy gym snaps. Why would you put that stuff online?

Buuuut I guess this is how people live their lives now. Weird texting and snaps and instagrams and DMs and confusion instead of just saying, “Hey, you want to get together on Saturday?”

[SunnyRS]

Maybe he doesn't know how to react to your flirty comments and that's why he is saying that.
Or maybe the flirty comment you made was a bit weird

[RedInnocent68]

You’re not weird. He’s weird for thinking you’re weird.

[AydenHazor]

He's probably awkwardly flirting. Being weird isn't necessarily a bad thing, and with the look and emoji he probably views it as a compliment

[WhitneySnow]

I think he’s just awkward with girls

[kareenakapur]

lol was going to leave him on read instead i sent him a selfie and said "its called rizz lol" maybe i am just weird lol

[WhitneySnow]

You’re cool 😊. He’ll either get it or he won’t.

[kareenakapur]

i also had sent him a sexy gym snap after lol he left me on read. but i also left him on read for 24 hours

[WhitneySnow]

You go girl! Keep him guessing lol

[kareenakapur]

lol im a mess why he leave me on read

[WhitneySnow]

Dw about it! He’s just socially awkward. You’re probably way hotter than he is.

[kareenakapur]

i know i am my friend goes to school w him and was like girl why u trynna go for him ur out of his league and he's not even that cute.

[kareenakapur]

but im hot but ugly bc i have no self respect :/

[WhitneySnow]

That sucks! It’s cool to mess around with hot guys (I don’t do it but a lot of my friends do), but don’t do it because you don’t like yourself.

[bowenw]

He sounds like the weird one.

[kareenakapur]

i told him he's cute asf and he told me i agree

[bowenw]

I rest my case

[kareenakapur]

lol was going to leave him on read instead i sent him a selfie and said "its called rizz lol" maybe i am just weird lol

[Miristheiss]

Maybe you flirt like Ross.

[ProbablyClueless]

He probably just sucks with women lol

[Prettywhenicryy]

This post is too long please shorten it thanks

[kareenakapur]

girl its so short people write so many long ones

[Prettywhenicryy]

Lmao. Some people have ADHD

[kareenakapur]

guy says im weird after i flirted w him. am i weird and he's not interested or does he have no game.

[kareenakapur]

he hearts my gym snaps wanted nudes and i said no at some point. he ghosted me now I'm flirting w him again after he hearted my gym snap again.

[Prettywhenicryy]

Ahhh he’s a fuckboy

[Prettywhenicryy]

He wants sex. Do not chase him.

[kareenakapur]

thats all i want from him too

[kareenakapur]

i used to rlly like him i cried so much when he ghosted me after i was like hey I'm not comfy sending nudes we haven't met yet lol.

[kareenakapur]

but now i dont like him i just need some dick,

[kareenakapur]

but if he could just stop being a dick and just give me some instead

[Prettywhenicryy]

No babyyy that’s not how that works emotions don’t disappear. You probably still like him deep down. It would be a big mistake to go fucking him.

[Jerre]

He appears to be the weird one

[kareenakapur]

i told him he's cute asf and he told me i agree

[kareenakapur]

lol was going to leave him on read instead i sent him a selfie and said "its called rizz lol" maybe i am just weird lol

[BLP11520]

You are normal

[kareenakapur]

i told him he's cute asf and he told me i agree

[BLP11520]

do what?

[roy_ricky09]

He is right