Are these signs from a married woman means she is looking for something?

[tough_guy]

same age coworker, talks a lot, smile a lot, flirt, sharing sexy jokes sometimes, open to touch but rarely touch me. very comfortable with me, like when she wasn't okay and wanted to show how her hands are cold, grab my hands firmly. or when her hand hurted showed me to check her hands...

intense eye contact,

kinda flirty in text messages...

Are she's into me?

Im not here for moral lessons just tell me what you think

[BabyGirl_Tric]

I see how others say maybe she is just teasing you and I would agree but maybe she does want you but I would say to distinguish between the two (a tease vs. hot for you) is to see how she is with others… watch her around other guys… especially ones that are halfway decent looking…. If she flirts with them too… she is a tease and teasing you and just a flirt… if you don’t see her doing this with anyone else then she is hot for you. No?

When I was married, hot or not, I didn’t even think of guys as guys… they were no different to me than an unavailable guy (ALL of them). I never fantasized or anything. If I saw a “hot guy” I might think hmm that looks nice (like looking at art in a museum). Or even see a girl with a hot guy and think oh, I see why she is with him, but again no different than a woman walking down the street with a gorgeous Monet (painting) so again like thinking of art…..

Now I am older and my husband and I split up after 18 years…. So now I am VERY flirty with guys and I don’t realize it until they come on to me and then I’m like oh, wow. But I am very nice to them and tell them I’m not interested in that way and that I hope I didn’t come off that way but that I was being friendly bc….. (like a guy I ran into yesterday saw my dog and we talked and we are trying to breed my daughters dog and he told me about his mom’s dog and we exchanged numbers but I was VERY clear that I wanted her mother’s breeders info for a stud for our female and he explained how they would get first pick of the litter, etc. So far he has texted me along those lines. But a guy I met on Friday, my nephew told him I did Uber on occasion and the guy said oh you should give me your number bc rn I’m taking rides until I get my car soon. I was like oh, ok, sure. We had driven him from my nephews job to a mall bc he was taking a bus from there. Within minutes of my nephew (29) and I dropping him off for the bus he started blowing up my phone saying he liked older women and blah, blah, and then yesterday he told me he bought a car and to ‘just give me your address and I’ll come over.

And I was like, whoa, slow down cowboy, like wtf? I am not trying to hurt someone i think I just exude sexuality when really I’m just friendly (to everyone, guy or girl).

I think it is from going from high self esteem (before marriage) to low self esteem (during and after marriage) and then back to high self esteem (it took about a year to gain that back after losing that and having not had it for about 5 years).

When I broke up I went hog wild (crazy) and dated lots of hot young guys that I never in my wildest dreams would have thought they would have interest in me (I was “off the market” for a very long time).

After a while…. When I saw that guys younger, fitter and hotter looking were attracted to me… now I have my confidence back and I think that confidence and newly found again — self esteem — could be sending the wrong messages.

I’m also very sexual (more now than during my marriage bc I do not have any restraints from anyone but myself regarding what I want and what I am willing to give and to whom).

It has all been very freeing! And I’m living my best life!

I say all of this bc it may be simplistic like my first answer OR it could be more complex depending on her and who she is and where she is in her relationship and in her life.

[tough_guy]

woah! thanks a lot for your information and long reply.
So Im gonna share more details with you due. abou lt your questions, I gotta say our work include tiny population, and there is no much attractive guys tbh, also not much attractive girls too. so part of it is kinda natural that we attracted together. Not trying to sounds cocky at all, just in order to give you bette sight of reality, I'm a tall athletic, handsome and charming guy who often to most finding girls flirt with me.
she is a very pretty girl but from lower class family, and her husband is easily below average. I haven't seeing her much with other guys cuz of the office as I told, but generally as I know her, she is kind and have sense of humor, but not a flirt with guys at all. she even dont have any friends (female or male). I know to some degree its about beint friendly, but I think there are lines between that. I mean she's not a type to share sexual jokes with guys at all, I know it.
but we have that stuff between myself, like talking about how she like guys' ass or about being spicy or hot. or talk about how big her ass... lol
She's totally open to anything from me, and even touches, like I touched her face, hands, hairs, her back waist.
She always holding intense eye contact like we wanna kiss eachother haha.
actually she even know im a naughty guy who is going to a lot of date and call me badboy, like although I rarely shared such things with her, but never tried to hide anything. even once she called me you are devil lol
In general, she is type of so good girl who is very family oriented and I think she just never exprienced such thing in her life, like flirt with a guy that much.

Also we have a great chemistry as well.

[KorvoWintrish]

She could be simply teasing, or she might be into you. Really only one way to find out, not that I'd recommend messing around with anyone married.

[tough_guy]

Whats that way? tell me

[Exterminatore]

Sounds like it. More info is necessary.

[tough_guy]

I see
I just replied other one with much more details. I would be appreciate if read that and tell my your opinion

[Wise4myage]

Sounds like she might be.

[tough_guy]

like 50 50?

[Wise4myage]

Yes.