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Search Results: having sex for the first time
I don’t understand him?
When I first started at my company one of our managers reached out to me. Over time we’ve developed a friendship. Can’t tell you how many times he gave me comfort and encouragement, I’ve done the same for him. As time has...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I ask to spend time with her again?
Been seeing this girl since Valentine's day. Until the first week of May, we saw each other every week at least once. For context, we've become very close, and have gotten as far as possible without sex/sexual things (and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is he just using me or does he have feelings of any sort?
I (F36) recently ended a long-term relationship of 14 years with my boyfriend and one of the causes has been the crush that I have been feeling for the guitarist of my band (N), who I have been knowing for the last 2...
Mufflone
Xper 3 Age: 33 As a guy, I’m getting increasingly frustrated at having to take the lead in everything dating wise?
I’m expected to ask them out, decide what we’re doing, carry the conversation etc. Most of the girls I been on dates with talk about themselves for 80% of the time and barely ask me any questions about myself in return....
Anonymous
(18-24) How do I win him back?
Hello! Please, be patient and read my story. I've been in a 7-year relationship with a man who, two months ago, cheated on me for the first time with a woman who only wants friendship from him. She knows about me but...
Anonymous
(30-35) How to tell if a situation wants to be more?
Basically I'm new back into the dating pool. I'd been In a long term relationship that ended after 7 years. It's been a bit of time and when I met my "situationship" I wasn't really looking for anything. We were just...
Anonymous
(25-29) I’m so confused at this point?
My ex says there are still feelings there and hangs out with me without having sex, which we have had. Told me I can call him on his last break every night for work… I don’t rush it so I just don’t call him during the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Living a Double Life
In the public eyes, I am a loving mother to my kids, a faithful wife to my husband, a wise teacher to my students, and a God fearing woman to my church, and a dedicated wife to a pastor. To everyone who knows me, I am the...
Princesspd
Xper 5 Age: 41 Guy Im seeing clearly just wants sex, should I tell him this isn't working in person or just text it to him?
I reconnected with a guy I knew a few years ago. We've been hooking up about a month. At first I liked him and was pursued hard by him - we were acting like a couple and having deep conversations, cuddling, intimate...
helpha
Yoda Age: 31 Was my ex a player/f*ckboy? or was our relationship just not good?
Hi. I am in the military. I dated this guy who was an NCO as I was a PFC. we were in different sections so its not fraternization. Anyways, we started dating after I had checked up on him for the fact he was sharing his...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why has my husband changed so much and no longer loves me?
For a while my husband has been giving methe silent treatment he would reject me on sex. Not so long ago I found out he is having an affair with his 20 year old secretary. I read his text while his was taking shower I ask...
Anonymous
(30-35) Understanding Workplace Politics: HR Is Not Your Friend
Here is part 3 in our series on understanding workplace politics. The dreaded entity that is HR. As I wrote in an older take for men on the job Advice for Guys: Avoiding A Sexual Harassment Case , one of the biggest...
Am I using someone to get over my ex?
Me and my ex sort of ended stuff but we have a pretty on off relationship. We've been together for 4 years and he was my first. I miss him a lot it hurts just about everyday I'm having a really hard time with moving on...
Anonymous
(25-29) Here's a list instead of several different questions for the guys to answer if they are brave enough and truthful (doing male research & statistics)?
Here's a list instead of several different questions: #1) How many of guys end up having sex with their first couple of girlfriends? #2) How many guys admire, like, or would actually wait until marriage to have sex due to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do men also develop feelings for women they’re seeing casually?
I’m wondering if men develop feelings for someone they are seeing casually. I (26) met a guy (28) on an online dating app. Out first to meeting we were intimate and it was passionate. We could easily have conversations...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, My girlfriend of 6 months (Latina 28F) has a black spade tattoo on her butt, says it was from long time ago?
My girlfriend says her ex boyfriend made her get it (a 2 year relationship when she was around 22) and she wish she could get it removed but she can't afford it right now. The thing is though is she never said anything...
GrumpleSS
Xper 1 Age: 32 What do you think of this text written by a feminist?
It is no longer content with simply reporting assaults; it now "doxes" the alleged aggressors. In doing so, the most radical self-proclaimed activists have turned their backs on the feminism of pre-MeToo. They have...
Julie4
Explorer Age: 28 Am I wrong to feel like hooking up with someone bc my boyfriend did when we first were dating?
Together 6 mo now. When I first started talking to my boyfriend, I was finally ready for a relationship. Having been in my ho phase was really getting tired. After my first meeting with him, he asked if I wanted to be his...
Anonymous
(25-29) Understanding Workplace Politics: The Myth of "Hard Work" Advancing You
Welcome to part 2 in our series of workplace politics. This Take will profile the notorious myth that hard work gets you up the ladder, and how so many good employees get frustrated by the fruits of their labor not...
10 Signs she is about to leave you.
1- She stops bringing issues to your attention this. does not mean that she has suddenly become the cool girl and has changed her thoughts on what she needs or wants in your relationship. No it's actually a sign that...
Anonymous
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