Hi. I am in the military. I dated this guy who was an NCO as I was a PFC. we were in different sections so its not fraternization. Anyways, we started dating after I had checked up on him for the fact he was sharing his "rap" notes which was very depressing. There was this girl that messed him up and made him suicidal, etc and I just decided to check up on him after I was done with duty. we watched horror movies, talked, etc and he kissed me. We ended up having sex. Anyways, he had asked me to be his girlfriend the next day and I would remind him how itd be a bad idea because of our ranks and previous issues. He's hardheaded (he even admitted this in the talk of breaking up with me) so he'd tell me how he doesn't care and how people here dont scare him and how he likes me because I was everything he wanted in a woman. I gave a shot. I was the type of girlfriend who's make him food, I'd clean around his room, I'd buy him things like his favorite drinks, refilling his fridge, making his bed, folding his clothes, bought him an XBOX, his dream cologne, I'd tell him he was a king and how much I appreciate him. I met his mom and he told me out of all women he been with (he have 24 body counts), that im the first. Anyways, we would have issues because he's be the type to always wanna not have communication and claim it stress him out when I tell him how unhealthy it is. despite others warning me, i thought he was just a guy thats been hurt so many times and to be patient. so, a month before he leaves the military, he dumped me. his best friend, a girl said he just isn't ready for a relationship in general and one of hus guy friends told me that he said he just wanted to f*ck me for i was the only girl on base to ever gave him attention. It just sucks to love someone yet they turn out to play with you just to bang because i wouldn't have if we wasn't together. Was this a f*ckboy/Player? or was I just a girlfriend who "stress him out"?
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Was my ex a player/f*ckboy? or was our relationship just not good?
