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Search Results: how to get guys to approach me
Girls, If Women Say They Want a Nice Guy, Why Do So Many Ignore the Quiet Ones?
I’m not writing this to complain or ask for pity. I’m just laying out the reality, because most people have no idea what dating looks like from the perspective of a shy guy. And frankly, it’s nothing like the romantic...
Shy_Steve
Guru Age: 43 What would you do when your friend is being stupid (unsafe/unreasonable)?
Was out with a friend and a guy approaches, paying (basic, respectful) attention to me. The 3 of us chat. I'm careful not to shut my friend out by paying the guy too much attention. I especially make sure the guy keeps...
HELP ME APPROACH A GUY?
I’m now crushing on a guy who’s my classmate in school (who I stalked on social media after along time thou we aren’t following each other). We’re both currently doing masters degree in different colleges. We don’t have...
ReshmaMohan22
Xper 1 Age: 27 Do White guys even actually like Latinas?
I always heard the myth that many White guys love Latinas, and that some of them even want a Latina girlfriend or wife, but I've never really seen it. I've gotten hit on by all kinds of different men; Latinos, Black, Arab...
Anonymous
(25-29) What Should You Do When Jealousy Makes You Avoid a Place You Once Enjoyed?
A few weeks ago I met an attractive woman at a kava bar I’ve frequented for years. She’s attractive, around 30, and has a solid career. We had a great first conversation. She smiled a lot, made eye contact, and leaned in...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do people like my personality but never like me romantically?
I guess I sound desperate but this is the fact. I was bright academically and I'm still known at the places I went to study as a brilliant student. Every month I receive calls from current students from my school, college...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it messed up that any guy I have sex with gets up and gets dressed& leaves right away after?
I'm trying my best to not get offended but it's like they are all in some kind of a club. Like how is every single one the same exact way to me? I've had friends with benefits in the past and none were exactly like...
ChristianMaeTorres
Xper 2 Age: 34 How do I go about executing this plan successfully?
I’m taking a page out of the female tactical handbook of love and war. Something I’ve heard girl doing in the best when they wanted to get with a guy usually one they don’t know or who is in a higher social circle is...
MLGbreezy
Yoda Age: 27 Do guys think it’s weird if a girl in her early 20s has never dated?
It’s not like I planned to not have boyfriends, a first kiss, or sex yet. Guys assume I’m just religious or something when I tell them—out of the 3 dates I’ve been on in the span of five year. (I don’t get it; I’m...
Rie1a_so
Xper 1 Age: 21 Guys, how do you prefer women to support you when you are going through a hard time?
It's not a secret that men sometimes like to vent to a woman because we tend to be more understanding and compassionate. I get confused with how to support a man in a relationship when he is going through a hard time. Men...
megzs16
Xper 5 Age: 37 People never notice very beautiful women hardly get approached?
Beautiful women are hated by other women because of jealousy & also by some guys. Share your thoughts
Anonymous
(30-35) The covert assistant?
Anyone ever deal with a woman who tries to be a secret but is anything but that? she might as well spray paint "I was here" across a guys entire body. When i can easily tell it's supposed to be some kind of secret thing...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do men approach women with beauty enhancements if they "don't like it"?
Obviously this does not apply to all men but there are a number of men who think and behave this way so that is enough men out there to have this conversation. I have had men in my family and online complain about women...
Cherrylicious
Yoda Age: 35 What tips can you give a guy with not a lot of experience with women who wants to get more from life?
Hey, I just turned 24 years old and I'm still single. I have never been in a relationship due to being raised by strict parents but when I became an adult (18+) I'm doing what I want more. I dated a little bit but not a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why are most women drawn to narcissistic toxic relationships?
When you look at it logically, girls say they want peace and tranquility, but what they say and what they do constantly contradict each other. When a man approaches with help, gifts, and high positive attention, he often...
capriVib
Explorer Age: 23 Why does this always happen to me?
It's like all the decent men are taken, the men I end up with are utterly disrespectful and want me to be their parent, and the people who chase me the most are old men. Every time I fall forwards a guy, I invest in...
L_Lawliet17
Xper 4 Age: 23 
Natka077
Xper 2 Age: 22 Why do people act like looks aren’t a factor in finding a partner?
I don’t mean to say only conventionally attractive people will find partners or be in fulfilling relationships. But you can’t deny that it helps A LOT. So why do so many people act like this isn’t a factor in how often...
Hghhhhhhhhhh
Xper 4 Age: 30 Why do I get attention from guys online but not in person?
I basically never get approached in public. I’m not super approachable to begin with, and I honestly don’t think I’m pretty. Guys look at me sometimes but that’s about it. But the few times I’ve posted pictures of myself...
Anonymous
(30-35) Would you dump him or give it a chance?
There was one guy i really liked couple years ago. I was twelve and he was sixteen. He knew i liked him but he started dating his classmate. I am eighteen now and he is 22. We have never talked together. I heard from a...
Anonymous
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