Search Results: how to talk to a shy guy

Why does he acts like this? is he just shy or doesn't like me?

there is this guy I know through a mutual friend. My friend told him that I think he is cute and that I want to be his friend. When we met, a lot of his classmates were there and we didn't talk because we were both shy. I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Why does he check my stories often but doesn’t follow me on Instagram?

The guy who is attracted to me and I to him checked my story for the third time but he hasn’t dared to follow me. We barely talked once in real life and we have a few mutual friends but that’s it. He looked at me a lot in...

Femmefatale97

Xper 5 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

Do polish men typically like English women?

I knew this guy for years and neither of us really noticed we liked each other until we both started working together. He's 7 years older than me, a manger at my work, single dad and Polish so the idea of us being...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Do some men who like a girl, get shy/nervous about actually going on a date with her?

I know there's some men that won't take a woman out because he just wants to hook up. There's also men who won't plan dates with a women because he's got a roster. But, could a man that you talk to every day who is kind...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

If a man and woman are super awkward around each other, does it mean mutual attraction?

Ok so I really like a guy but every time we talk I feel like the conversation is pretty awkward. We are both fine with other people, but with each other I just feel like we struggle to get our words out ha and we end up...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Some questions would like insight into a guys minds! I know not all guys are not the same?

So I like this guy a lot and we “hang out” every couple weeks to a month. Text on a pretty regular basis. Feeling like we are dating but he says he’s not interested in “dating” so I just try to keep everything at a...

Sssssshhhhh123

Xper 1 Age: 34

Dating

I am a hot guy, yet can't get a girlfriend?

I am tall slim 6'/183cm, mixed race, everyone says I am very handsome, and I have that innocent look in me, but I am very shy quiet, and reserved. Girls always giggled at me in high school, but I did not like most of...

sprotz

Xper 4 Age: 43

Guy's Behavior

What does my guy friend see in me?

We're not dating. I don't even know if he likes me like that. I know him from school. I introduced myself to him at orientation. We both found commonalities in the fact that we had speech impediments as kids. For the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Does anyone else feel this way?

Life just doesn't feel worth living. I go to work so I can pay for the next day's meal. I dont truly love what I do. I can't get hired by the job that I truly wanted. I never had a boyfriend because I just couldnt fall in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

My coworker is shy around me, so much so that he finds it hard to talk to me. Why is this?

A guy coworker and I have to work together on related projects, but I find every time we do he is shy and clams up, to the point he finds it difficult to talk to me. I mean hi is fine but anything else is hard. He is...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, When a guy looks at you with their chin down and eyes up does it indicate shyness?

I was surprised a guy did this as it's something I associate with feminity or submissiveness. He was looking at me like this a few times when I spoke but when he talked to my sister he was normal. I got the feeling he was...

Lalalove11

Xper 6 Age: 26

Dating

Does he like me or fear commitment? Or do I have to let him go?

I met this guy at work and I felt this kind of connection with him I did not really had before. And I believe he felt it too, he could talk to anyone except to me, and when he did he was nervous and shy. We kept liking...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Does he like me or should I move on?

Jayde21

Xper 5 Age: 24

Guy's Behavior

Should I continue with him or let him go?

Jayde21

Xper 5 Age: 24

Dating

Is it okay to let a man know where you stand, early on?

I told a guy that I’d made small talk with for half a week and seemed to blow hot and cold, but who hadn’t spoken to me recently that I’m interested in getting to know him and maybe having a date if he’s interested. I...

MoonFace2

Xper 6 Age: 37

Flirting

There's a guy in my workplace I'm not sure if he likes me or not?

We say hello or wave when we first see each other but that's it. If we bump into each other on the hall during the course of the day he just stares straight ahead. We often make small talk when we first meet in the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, Does it sound like he ever liked me for real?

I used to have this colleague that I had a crush on when I first joined the company. However, he would always dismiss me quickly or even reply somewhat rudely when I talk to him. Later, I saw how he enthusiastically...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Do guys like shy girls because we don’t talk a lot?

I noticed a Pattern. As soon as i start talking a lot, guys (who aren’t good by the way) seem lose interest or start even being nasty and cruel to me. I think I found the way to repel guys without having to outright...

Jzidh

Xper 1 Age: 76

Dating

Fizzled out after 6 dates, could I have done anything different?

I went on 6 dates with this guy and I saw so much potential. He was exactly my type, we were aligned on many things, had fun on every date and texted everyday. He was also sweet, consistent, and affectionate; he baked me...

rkuchiki123

Xper 4 Age: 29

Guy's Behavior

How am I getting this so wrong?

Okay so context I am a shy girl, I do the usual of going super quiet especially when I like a guy and then I don't know how to act around him so get it can be difficult to read. I was out with a group of friends, during...

Anonymous

(18-24)