Dating

Does he like me or fear commitment? Or do I have to let him go?

I met this guy at work and I felt this kind of connection with him I did not really had before. And I believe he felt it too, he could talk to anyone except to me, and when he did he was nervous and shy. We kept liking some of our story’s on social media but never texted and after we got more comfortable he was very interested and he was also sweet. He did things for me and even send an event to me so i could go with my friends because he went there with his friends. But it went nowhere.

So I send him a funny reel and he answered and we talked whole night. When we talked about movies he told me that he hadn’t seen a couple movies that I was really fan of, told me he wanted to find a good moment for it. So i asked him what that good moment was. He said that he wanted to watch with someone, not alone. But he didn’t know anyone. So i offered that if he couldn’t find anyone he could also ask me if he was comfortable. And he replied with that “hes not that fast uncomfortable so that it wasn’t something to worry about”. And he said that I needed to be comfortable too. We didn’t planned anything yet and after couple days when we didn’t talked I asked him if he had time for that, I thought he was maybe disappointed we didn’t planned. Because first time seeing him after we talked he was bit quiet. But he told me that we could go to the cinema but that he didn’t know any good movies yet. So I said to him that if he found any he should let me know, and that if he wanted to do something else it also would be fine. But he wanted to wait till Saturday and drink some beer first because we had an party with colleagues. He offered me to ride with his dad and bring me home.

And the whole night we had our legs against each other. I added him on snapchat and we talked all day, and he said very sweet goodnight. After we didn’t talk and on work he’s keeping it professional I guess. Except that he asked everyone for a drink except me. I think he just wants to do things slow?

Does he like me or fear commitment? Or do I have to let him go?
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