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Search Results: how to tell her no
Have you ever thought someone was desperate for you but it turned out they were just treating you like everyone else?
This has probably happened to me multiple times but this post is inspired by my friend explaining "humbling" texts to me. Which she says are when desperate guys try to knock you down a peg after being "made" to put in a...
Is a 10 year age gap in dating really too much at 23 and 33?
This is kind of a curious question on my end. I know what I think of it, but I wanted to get some more opinions on the topic. There's this lady that shops at my store who I believe is not only one of the nicest customers...
tstarr17
Xper 6 Age: 33 My partner refuses to see my family—should I stay or walk away?
Look, the thing is, my partner can't stand my family, even though they haven't done anything to him. He just says he doesn't like them, and of course, that's meant that after a year together, he's stopped coming to family...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is my married coworker’s extra attention just respect or hidden attraction?
There’s this coworker of mine and he’s a phenomenal doctor, good man and highly respected. I never kiss as s though and I believe respect must be mutual, regardless of someone’s title. I remember when I was first...
Anonymous
(30-35) My husband is “mentoring” some girl who got laid off and it feels weird?
Some woman at my husbands company was recently laid off with loads of other people. She asked him to mentor her when she joined and was new in town. Now she’s out a job and they’re chatting on text and personal email. He...
Anonymous
(30-35) Was the 2020 US election rigged?
D0J is engaged in ongoing efforts to uncover evidence that the 2020 election was “rigged.” It's not something the DOJ needs to tell us about quite yet. There are investigations going on in Arizona, Georgia and especially...
Dargil
Master Age: 36 How do I move on from loving a man who still won’t love me back?
Okay so I met this guy when I was 11 years old and he was 23. He works for my dad and it started as a little school girl crush. I think he was aware as everytime id see him id go all red in the face and act shy but...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this strong intuition, pattern recognition, or just a good eye for people?
Over a year ago, I started bartending at this new hotel. One evening there were 3 men that came and sat pretty much in front of the area where I would make my drinks. I quickly noticed 2 of the 3 men. One was being...
RavenWing057
Xper 4 Age: 32 Girls, do you understand why I feel skeptical about if I should have enjoyed the movie Obsession when I hated the sexual assault scenes?
I enjoyed how scary Nikki was but I couldn't help but hate during the movie how he was basically raping her when he could tell things were off. And than after the movie I was like, no even though this is just a movie,...
Steven80000
Xper 5 Age: 34 Is 30 too late to start a real estate career with no savings or network?
I’m in my early 30’ and feel a bit behind in life. I lived that stereotypical Asian family restaurant life. Where the parents push the child to take over the business eventually. Family dynamics are very complicated and...
RavenWing057
Xper 4 Age: 32 Does my coworker friend like me or are we just really close?
I am trying to be able to tell if my coworker (friend) has a crush on me of if we are just connected because we are close. I know that I should just ask him but that is not going to happen. Anyways I feel like he has been...
Anonymous
(30-35) In your opinion, what actually defines a successful life, once you strip away everything society tells you it should be?
We’re often taught that success is money, status, education, relationships, or having a family. And for most people, that becomes the default definition without much question. But I keep wondering, if all of that...
Anonymous
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Ariesman81Nshiiit
Xper 5 Age: 45 My boyfriend baked a cake for his female coworker but won’t make me tea—am I overreacting?
One of the things we have been arguing about as of recently is a lack of effort to show me he loves me. We’ve been together for 7 years. Some backstory, he woke up early this morning, at 6AM, to go to the grocery store...
Anonymous
(25-29) Who else thinks these Bell to Bell phone bans in school are stupid?
i’m always gonna keep my phone on me on silent. My high school has no right to tell me I can’t keep it on me.
Anonymous
(36-45) I am a rape survivor and my boyfriend has a rape fantasy. Can someone explain the attraction to this kind of fantasy?
In 2014 I was sexually assaulted and almost murdered by a boyfriend. I have C-PTSD from that. I didn’t date after that for well over a decade until I met my current boyfriend. We’ve been together for a year and things...
Anonymous
(36-45) What can I do about a security guard who followed me and demanded my number?
The shopping centre I always go to after University has this one huge tall muscular hairy South-Asian, maybe early 30s man that I am lowkey really terrified of, and I'm not talking just appearance, but he stares in a...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do I feel crazy in relationships?
I was obsessed with my boyfriend. I stalked his location all day long, angering myself if i noticed he left his house so i’d question him where he was and who he was with. I would cry and rage when we interacted with...
Anonymous
(18-24) Should I stay no contact with a guy who lied and treated me like a rebound?
I started talking to this guy 1 month and I thought we were becoming really good friends. Very quickly though it became super intense. He would call me every morning and night, we would do sleep calls, flirt, constantly...
Anonymous
(18-24) How do men show women they care and how much they love them?
The reason why I'm asking this question is because I wanted to know How would men shows the women that they care about how much men love them and here is an example: men takes the women that they care about on a romantic...
thundercloud
Xper 6 Age: 37 