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Is giving out “olive branches” to people you don’t get along with (either never or had a falling out with) more rare nowadays?

There was a young woman I started to get to know romantically. However, after a few weeks chatting with she blindsided me with a very unfair (and completely unexpected) rant about radical politics. This is not the first...
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Why More and More People Are Quitting Social Media: My Perspective

It’s no longer a secret and not something Meta and probably TikTok can hide either. More and more people - namely younger ones - are quitting social media in record numbers. There are even news reports on it as well. It...
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How Can I Be Seen as Attractive in Some Situations, but Ignored in Others — Especially at Work?

I’ve noticed a confusing pattern in my social interactions. On one hand, I regularly receive clear signals that I’m considered attractive. Women sometimes approach me first, ask for my number, or compliment my appearance,...
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What to do about attention from younger man?

I (32f) go to the farmers market every week. My husband tells me I’m attractive to him, but when I go to the farmers market, I look a mess. Usually a baseball cap to hide my hair, very casual clothes… absolutely nothing...
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Would you ignore someone back if they ignored you first?

A girl like me but I never noticed her until I did. And once I did and tried to holler at her she was ignoring me
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My friend's boobs are literally getting in the way of our friendship... what to do?

The title may sound ridiculous but it's literally what's happening. So a close friend I made relatively recently is a sweet woman with pretty big tits. Not absurdly huge or anything but enough to create lots of cleavage,...
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What is your favorite B-movie or low budget series?

I luv B-movies so much! I’m not sure i could fairly narrow it down to one, but “The Evil Dead” came to mind when i first considered this question. Of course, at the time i was watching “My Name is Bruce”, starring Bruce...
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Does he like me?

I started as the quieter, smart, somewhat distant type while my friend (the FB) is warm, outgoing, and socially magnetic — the typical popular girl boys chase at first. But over time, as people notice me more, the...
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Assess guys body language and intent?

We were at a Christmas party (loud music, drinks etc) for work and one of my coworkers who I never really work with and rarely chat with ended up hanging out- we just kept chatting random things and I noticed he’d be...
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Crush on an older guy — are these signs he might like me back?

I have a crush on an older guy in one of my classes, and I’m trying to figure out if he might like me back. He’s a little shy and awkward, but some of his behavior has been making me wonder. Whenever we talk, we have...
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Help assess male body language?

We were at a Christmas party (loud music, drinks etc) for work and one of my coworkers who I never really work with and rarely chat with (only chat pleasantry if we run into each other) ended up hanging out- we just kept...
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Is it colorism if so how can I stop it?

Ever since I was a kid, my first crush was very light-skinned and pale. Most of the guys I was attracted to were also light-skinned. I wasn’t too fond of darker skin—it never really appealed to me. I also noticed that...
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"I've started having obsessive thoughts about my boyfriend's previous relationship. How can I overcome this?

I am going through a period where I feel incredibly mentally sensitive. I find myself constantly crying over this issue; my tears just won't stop. I love my boyfriend deeply. He is my first love, but I am not his....
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Is it just time to move on now?

I noticed she barely looks my way anymore and yes I never approached her because I just didn’t. But first I was scared to but then I just thought after she already thinks I’m not confident so what’s the point. I don’t get...
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Possible stalker?

I live in a gated community and I noticed that a guy who greeted me once has been coming around past my house and looking in as if to see if I’m going to come out. He’s done this twice (the first time he followed me but I...
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Girl ignores me completely, but she looks at me (when she thinks I don't notice) and takes a seat right across me, why?

So this girl does her best to ignore me. Last time I crossed her and one of her close colleagues. Her colleague smiled and me while I passed, she however completely ignored me. This was shortly after we sat in a meeting,...
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How did you feel about going into your very first brand new decade?

For me, it was 1970 and I thought it was gonna be this great shiny, new decade and everything was gonna be great! Well, there WAS a lot of new and kinda shiny but not so heavy on the great. Music got real boring, movies...
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Is this a common way of girlfriends to flirt or was I just dense for not noticing?

So I almost never wear shorts. I wear pants literally all the time throughout the whole year. I only really wear shorts on rare days where it's literally that hot that pants would be torture. Up till recently my...
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Are you allowed to get upset or show irritation under these circumstances?

Scenario: your partner comes home from work, they greet you at the door with a kiss, suggest they cook you dinner, run you a bath, walk the dog. When you come downstairs to make yourself a cuppa tea, you notice the...
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