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After my mom died my grandma was convinced my mom came to her in a dream. I didn't believe that it was anything more than a dream. After all, why would she go to my grandma who was physically and mentally abusive to her growing up? Why wouldn't she come to my dreams and let me know she's fine? Then my son's dad died. My son's dad was remarried at the time to a women he had known for 6 months. My ex and I decided justen would be happier in the city going to school and living there then he would have been in the rural desert where I live. So when his dad died I of course went to get him. My son's step mom said he could still live with her without even asking me if it was ok. She told him she raised 5 kids and two loved her more than their own parents. And because of her manipulation and him not wanting to change schools or leave the house he last had his dad, he was angry with me for telling him he had to come with me. I felt horrible about it but I'm his mom. Plus she wouldn't let me know who she was. So to me she was just a strange woman my ex brought into his life. How was I gonna trust she would take care of him. Anyway after he moved in with me she told him to keep a secret from me that she was filing for temporary gaurdianship so she could keep my son. She told my son to lie to his mom. The court denied it of course because she couldn't prove that I wasn't able to take care of him. But with him upset at me I was breaking down. It killed me that my son was acting as if I was the bad person destroying his life. One day I started to consider letting him stay with her during the week for school and me on weekend. It was breaking my heart but I wanted him to be happy. He has been through enough coping with his dad being gone. I fell asleep crying and I had a dream with my ex's family and my family. It was like my ex's celebration of life. My ex stood there looking at me so peaceful and it was like he wanted me to know I was doing the right thing taking my son home.

I personally think it is not acceptable to flirt with others while being in a relationship. I have the following arguments to support my statement:

A. The chance that the person you´re flirting with takes it seriously is relatively high. In fact, they might think they have a chance. If the s/o is faithful whats wrong with that? Well, this is science-based but the other person will try to pursue because they want what they can't get and it´s also proven that flirting only, causes a lot subconsciously.

B. Flirting is dangerous, it could slowly lead to more, without realizing one might replace his/her feelings. Humans aren´t like robots, being programmed and all.

C. I think it´s immature because it really isn´t that difficult to stay with one person.

D. A woman/man who flirts only with his/her s/o will be more desired and might create jealousy amongst others. I know this is a bit against A, but the difference between A and D is A gives a chance/flirts with those who desire him/her while D ignores the flirts and is only focused on their s/o.

E. Sign of strength (especially in this time where the majority is just easy) and perseverance when it comes to keeping values high.

F. The relationship between the couple strengthens immensely because ain´t no other person could interfere with their love.

G. Why risking it? Like what´s the point of flirting with others? There is no rational clarification for it. It has only disadvantages.

H. But I flirt for fun? There are other ways to have fun without risking a relationship.

I. One could be so loyal, but in my opinion, flirting decreases the loyalty a bit because one allows it to happen. One opens the door.

J. No matter how much someone trusts the other, self-esteem and/or trust will get damaged eventually. Especially when it happens often. Sadly it is uncontrollable and it has nothing to do whether someone is confident or not because if you care and love someone enough it will happen eventually. It´s inevitable.