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28F, my mom & I have always went through periods where we stop talking for a few weeks/months. Back in 2020, we got in a big fight & didn’t talk for a little over a year. I finally began talking to her again & we got back in an argument for the first time since Dec 2022. That was squashed after a weekend & got in another argument this Tues. It’s usually over petty things, I can be very argumentative & a good amount of the time she tries to rekindle. In 2020 I was living alone & I moved back in with her Nov 22. I don't know if we went a good amount of time not fighting bc I wasn’t living with her, I’m older now & hoped things would’ve changed. I really thought they did but I snap very easily, work has been stressful & we’re back to old ways. Bc of this, my anxiety is up the roof & not very content atm. My dad said we have a crazy relationship, mind you he & his mother’s relationship was worse. It makes me second guess if we’re really ok, I feel comfortable with her but we’re equally petty & too alike I guess?

In my personal opinion, I literally don't understand how people can say to a friend, "don't get involved in another persons relationship issues" or if they have kids, "well by telling on the cheating, you ruined the kids lives because the mom/dad are now getting a divorce." To me, if you are dumb enough to first off, have an affair/cheat, and then go to some public place and make-out with or whatever with a person YOU KNOW is not your significant other, than expect potential consequences. No one ruins your relationship in that way, except you. If it were my friend, I'm loyal to my friends and the last thing you want to happen is for that cheater to be like, well, your friend saw me and said nothing because then what do you look like? If you don't want to get caught...don't cheat!