What is a normal brother-sister relationship?

[Anonymous]

I was born in the contryside of my country. When i was about at the age 6 my family moved to a big city. We moved from countryside to a big city so we just had enough money to rent our small apartmant. My sister who was 2 years older than me and i was using the same room. We didn't had an extra budget so mom and dad was showering at the same time. Me and my sister was showering at the same time to keep the bill low. This wasn't strange to us. We were having fun regardless of our body deferences. We never had any trouble. Actually i really find it interesting that sister-brothers fight these days. This continued till i was 20 and she was 22. I needed to move out for work reasons (In my country school finishes at 19 and i got offered a pretty good job for 1 year experience). After i moved out things happened. I got a girlfriend. We got pretty close in few years. Now i am 25. I proposed to her and i am going to meet her family *officially*. She was always telling me not to speak with her brother and i was asking why. She was just saying complicated, complicated and complicated. (Side note this is my first time seeing her brother because he lives abroad.) I didn't want to make her angry so i didn't be so insistent. I am guesing that they haven't been talking for 4 years because her parents said something like that last year. What might it be? Was my realationship with my sister was strange? What is your relationship with your sister/brother?

[Guy13]

He may have done something with a last boyfriend. You think you can sit down with her and tell her,”we’re getting and I don’t want secrets to start off with, be honest with me or i will think the worst…”. I had a sister as you know….

[Wise4myage]

I see not wrong with your relationship with your sister. Me and my sister shared a similar experience growing up. Fest does your gut feeling tell you about your girlfriend situation?

[mitch7753]

Well, brother, let me say this there was nothing wrong with your relationship with your sister. Relationships are unique to certain people. I don’t think there was anything wrong with you. Showering with your sister, especially Out of necessity, I think it’s great. You have a good relationship with your sister. I have a good relationship with my sisters as well, but Maybe not as good as yours since we’re all adults now I’m trying to get them to meet up with me one day so we can just have an adult hangout whatever that means. As far as why she doesn’t like her brother maybe he did something with her when she was younger I don’t know I don’t want to Accuse so I really can’t answer that one for you but as far as the relationship with your sister, that’s not bad.